Yacoub Hyo

I choose myself and my life.

After my Advanced Satvatove course, I turned all my anger inward. How could I have been so stupid as to take that seminar?

To accept these people's obvious projections about me, as though they had something true and meaningful to say about me as a person?

I didn't hate the people who gas-lit and manipulated me. I hated myself. I hated myself for getting gas-lit and manipulated. So when I read an article on the Sampradaya Sun website, years ago, critical of the Satvatove seminar, instead of emotionally supporting the writer, I submitted an article to the same publication, defending David Wolf.

Why did I do that?

Well, rather than responding to the critical article himself, David had sent out an email to a number of people who had taken his seminar. The implication was that he was asking them to write a rebuttal to the critical article. I wonder if he did the same thing with some of the people who submitted articles in defense of Satvatove, to this very website.

For years, I daydreamed about making things right, about submitting another article to the Sampradaya Sun, under my own name, in which I would confront David and Satvatove, to claw back some piece of what they had taken from me.

And I'm sure that if I wrote it, they wouldn't even remember what they did to me. When I finally started writing anonymously about my experience with Satvatove, on THIS Pissed Consumer website, I would would get tears of relief in my eyes.

When I was in the Satvatove seminar, nobody protected us from them.

Nobody stopped them. And afterward, nobody held them accountable for what they did to us. But when I first read someone standing up to Satvatove, in an article on this very website, I thought to myself: "I want to live."

I said to God, to the Universe: "I'm done protecting Satvatove and David Wolf". I chose myself.

I chose to finally be true to myself. What kind of cult member does that?

The answer is that I stopped being a Satvatove cult member when I did that. And I'm grateful for it. And if I had to relive the experience a million times, I would choose the same thing again, every time.

Okay?

Every time. I feel like I let myself down, by not standing up to Satvatove during "our" seminar. Like I enabled a situation and I got hurt. And I'm sorry that I didn't stand up to them.

And I'm so grateful that help came my way, in the form of this website.

It's like I asked God for help and He directed me here. Even though I wasn't the person who had a psychological breakdown during our seminar, the harm that Satvatove does happened to me too.

I'm here now. No more checking out. No more enabling Satvatove.

I am right here. I missed being present in my own life.

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Preferred solution: I would like them to be held accountable for the harm they create.

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Guest

It's okay to be your true self. You don't have to force your heart into the small and rusty Satvatove box.

Guest

The deliberate(?) vagueness of Satvatove is something that started to bother me, after a while. The way they kind of weasel around taking responsibility for the harm that they cause, via their seminars and coaching.

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Sacrificing your true self for Satvatove isn't real. And Satvatove isn't real either. It's a carefully choreographed illusion.

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I felt so emotionally shut down after the Satvatove final stretch process. It has taken me years to start feeling my real emotions again.

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Two middle fingers for David Wolf, Marie Glasheen and Daru Brahma.

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If you have a tendency to blame yourself for the behavior and choices of others, it can be good to keep in mind that many of the criticisms you receive from Satvatove facilitators or volunteers are confessions.

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As we begin to hear God's voice, we start to let go of our Satvatove programming. We begin to understand, at a very deep level, how undeniably anti-sattvic are Satvatove's concepts of "Be-Do-Have" and "survival mode vs living mode".

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To get value out of Satvatove, it is important to remember why you got involved in the first place, and to not allow yourself to get sidetracked by David and Marie's agenda. They will try to bend you to their will. Pay attention to what you're doing, not just how you're "being".

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Having your consciousness in the result or goal, especially when combined with Be-Do-Have, is counterproductive.

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David and Marie are either badly-intentioned or they're not very good at their jobs.

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Anonymous

Complete submission to the Satvatove experience.

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The Satvatove trainers explain emphatically the major contingency for achieving the expected transformation: complete submission to the Satvatove experience.

The Satvatove rules are notable for their emphasis upon obedience to the instructions of the trainers and their arbitrariness or lack of an apparent rationale.

The effect of a discussion of these rules is to fortify the position of the trainers as legitimate authorities who are in control and to diminish the participants' control. Participant responses are managed in a way which reduce the ability of participants to think critically and simultaneously inflates their self-esteem (when they unquestioningly follow the rules).

Over the multiple days of the Satvatove seminar, responses increasingly mirror the idiom of the trainers, and the applause becomes increasingly enthusiastic. What is rewarded by the Satvatove trainers is compliance or pseudo-compliance.

Participants who offer critical comments or who suggest a different way of conceptualizing a problem have their statements dismissed, are subjected to ridicule, or are confused with paradoxical logic.

The "dissenter" is generally maneuvered into some form of compliance, and then receives applause.

The Satvatove trainers use a variety of techniques to neutralize comments which challenge or qualify Satvatove dogma. They thus maintain sufficient control over participant responses to assure that defiance and critical thinking are not publicly rewarded.

The use of confusing "double talk" is particularly effective in disarming those who threaten to delegitimize the Satvatove trainers' positions.

As the Satvatove training progresses, participants, become increasingly reliant upon the trainers to interpret reality. Defenses and the capacity for critical reasoning are undermined by both the structure of the training and the responses of the leaders.

The paradox of Satvatove's implicitly regressive message is that personal growth is promoted through submission or surrender to the existing reality of the Satvatove trainers.

Although there is often an element of truth in the Satvatove trainers' arguments, their extensive use of all-or-nothing categories, absolutist logic and magical thinking distort what could otherwise have been reasonable points.

While reactions to others always contain projective themes, at Satvatove the boundary between inner and outer reality, between self and other, is constantly being obliterated by the structure of the training.

Exercises which mobilize narcissistic defenses, i.e., feelings of inflated well-being and exaggerated personal power, are alternated with psychological-attack exercises. The latter evoking feelings of shame and worthlessness and making the group vulnerable to the judgments of the Satvatove leaders.

By assuming the position of harsh and rejecting parents, the trainers are able to mobilize infantile feelings of badness. This experience makes it more likely that participants would attempt to defend against feelings of being a bad and powerless child in subsequent exercises by identifying more strongly with the Satvatove leaders.

Satvatove also uses exercises that foster pseudo-intimacy. Such interactions are stripped of the relational context which generally gives them meaning. Instead, they become a rather compulsive, counterphobic reaching out which provided little insight concerning problems of intimacy. These contrived fleeting contacts are presented as if they had profound human implications.

People appear to be interchangeable so that ephemeral, indiscriminate emotional contacts are presented as profound and meaningful.

Identification with Satvatove necessitates considerable idealization so that any threat to this experience is aggressively defended against.

When a participant experiences a serious psychological breakdown in the seminar room, and cannot complete the course, the Satvatove leaders attempt to transform the participant's episode into an almost positive experience by using the categories of reasoning provided by the training. What is remarkable is the level of denial and misinterpretation of what has occurred.

After the harmed participant has been spirited away, the group reconvenes to continue the training. This could have an occasion for discussing what had happened, including the impact of the training on the participant.

Instead, the incident is quickly glossed over and the training resumes, almost as though nothing negative had happened. Since the group's idealization of the trainers is potentially undermined by this incident, decisive defensive operations are necessary to prevent the eruption of hostility in the group.

In order for the Satvatove experience to he taken in, it needs to be idealized as an all-good object. The trainers cannot be questioned nor can the content of the training be challenged.

Participants whose opinions deviate from the trainers' are seen as a threat to the feelings of elation and well-being enjoyed by certain participants.

Such threats have to be actively defended against in order to preserve the fantasy of omnipotence cultivated within the Satvatove training.

For those who submit to the Satvatove worldview and back away from the training's choreographed conflict, no truly positive change takes place.

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Guest

The Satvatove seminar was horrible.

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It's about surrendering to Satvatove, to David and Marie's inconsistent whims, to their self-serving vision, or holding on to your humanity. And it is a choice.

Guest

A cult doesn't necessarily have to be a "religious" cult. Satvatove is a secular, Lifespring therapy cult.

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I feel so grateful for this website.

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It is undeniable that Satvatove facilitators, coaches and volunteers have their own agendas. And that these agendas are far more important to them then your own vision for your life.

When you become aware of the gap between who you want to be, and who Satvatove demands that you be, it can elevate your motivation to change what isn’t working.

Hope infused with this motivation will help you be more receptive to intuitive guidance from your unconscious, ultimately helping you to break free from the coercion of the Satvatove cult. When you listen to the intuitive guidance and follow through, it builds a relationship of trust between your conscious mind and your unconscious mind.

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David and Marie are incompetent as healers, but the Lifespring script that they strictly follow is good for destabilizing people, and pushing them deeper into the modes of passion (raja-guna) and ignorance (tama-guna).

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I don't regret my Satvatove experience. If not for Satvatove, I would likely never have discovered this wonderful website. And if I had not discovered this website, I would have never learned the truth about Lifespring.

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One can feel the legacy of John Hanley Sr and Werner Erhard very strongly in the Satvatove environment. And the legacy of Srila Prabhupada?

Barely.

To those who are put off by Hare Krishna, don't worry. There is almost nothing in the essence of Satvatove that has anything to do with Krishna or with Srila Prabhupada.

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The error rate for eye-witness accounts is about 50%. I would take positive Satvatove testimonials with a grain of salt.

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Satvatove practices and models terrible boundaries. They make use of antiquated pop-psychology practices from the 1970s, which are potentially harmful, especially to the vulnerable and those suffering from PTSD.

People get addicted to attending and working hard in the name of 'service' and not getting paid. Very narcissistic, 'know all' approaches to the clients.

Clients get high after attending and then may crash some time after. Tread carefully if you are considering attending.

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map-marker Byward Market, Ontario

Blow the mind - literally.

I deeply empathize with the individuals who wrote the positive reviews of Satvatove, and I wish them well. Being a Satvatove graduate myself, I understand that these people have been through a very intense course of what is effectively brainwashing, whereby they have come to accept ideas and tenets that are not their own, that are not even real, but are presented as if they are fact and as truth.

In essence, the reviews read like the authors had been indoctrinated into Satvatove World. It is surprising how fast this can happen, but Satvatove builds on the experience of companies (Lifespring, etc.) that have had decades to perfect this dark art of theirs and know how to do it well. You see...there is a distinct link between language and thought - scrambling language in the way that Satvatove does can only induce confused thinking. Satvatove's very concepts and their use of language create confusion - this is partly what has people going back to it.

They need to keep going back to try and make sense of what they have been taught, which of course they never do - because it doesn't make sense. They merely end up becoming sucked deeper into the "rabbit hole". I experienced a state of confusion and disorientation during the Satvatove basic course. It got worse when doing the advanced course.

Yes, there is coercive persuasion during the Satvatove basic course, but the advanced course takes it to another level. The advanced course is smaller, not necessarily more intimate, but more intense. They really try to break you down there. It's very deep...and very destructive.

The multi-day event involves sensory deprivation (our seminar room had no windows, you cannot see passage of time, short breaks and not much time for eating), distortion of normal sleep patterns (due to very long hours, and homework given overnight), sensory overload (lots and lots of information given in very short time which is hard to process), rigid authoritarian leaders who go from put-downs to praise and eventually manage to get the participants to empathize with his/her abusive behavior, plus peer pressure from a large group, public humiliation, confession of very intimate information that one would never usually discuss with strangers and a whole host of psychological pressures and manipulative techniques including covert hypnosis and covert guided meditation. I'm sure you can imagine what this does to the brain and what stress this puts the average person's mind under. Werner Erhard, an early pioneer of the "transformational seminar" industry, said that his aim was to blow the mind - literally. By causing a mental collapse (either full or partial) Satvatove is able to then insert its own thought patterns into someone else's head and by continually repeating ideas over and over again, as well as the covert hypnosis, people come to accept these things.

Also bear in mind that if someone goes there on the recommendation of a trusted friend, they are more willing to accept what they are being told (this is also why Satvatove uses word of mouth rather than advertising). Graduates of Satvatove's advanced course have had their sense of reality subjected to an intense attack.

Even when they're acting like they're invincible, at some level they're questioning what's real and what's not. They will require a further dose of Satvatove if they're to keep that feeling of invincibility up.

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David and Marie don't see you. They see what they want to see.

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Many cults recruit through our friendships and family ties. Persons we already trust are devastatingly effective recruiters.

I got entangled with the Satvatove cult - and I was no sucker.

I had above average awareness of cults. Despite this, I got (temporarily) entangled with them.

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It's amazing the degree to which I closed my heart after the Satvatove advanced seminar. Not only to other people, but even to God.

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The claimed good that Satvatove does is fake, but the damage they cause is real.

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How can we keep David and Marie honest and accountable? Is it possible?

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David and Marie are violators of the soul. Satvatove is violation of the soul.

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The purpose of Satvatove is to undo Srila Prabhupada's work and to poison his legacy. One can feel this at a very deep level. David and Marie's hatred for Srila Prabhupada is overwhelming.

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I took part in the Satvatove basic and advanced courses. After the experience, which was a highly charged, I felt high, as if I was on something.

And I felt very powerful. But I did not feel like me. During the advanced course, I also felt cheated, and in retrospect, I wish I had left early. But at the time, I didn't want to waste the money I'd spent, so I stayed.

I thought that only by completing the course, would I improve my life. At the end of the seminar, I said little. I knew something wasn't right. And when I left, I knew I was not going back.

On top of all that, someone in our seminar had a horrible psychological breakdown and injured themselves in the seminar room. There was blood and strange behavior. The first article on this website, linking Satvatove to Lifespring, was a Godsend. I Googled Lifepsring and later also learned about other similar seminars, like Landmark, MITT and Momentus.

I spent time reading articles and accounts online, from participants in seminars that were very similar to Satvatove and then I saw parallels to the smoke and mirrors that Satvatove uses. I did not feel high and powerful at the end of the Satvatove seminars because of the amazing therapy or "spiritual" principles. I felt high because they had stressed me out, both physically and emotionally to such and extent, that they had tripped my body's dopamine levels to a high. And that is why we all felt hypo-manic.

And they use waking hypnosis to instill fear in you. I read about that online, in the context of other seminars. Once you understand it, you can see how Satvatove uses it. One reason I got affected by the experience was that I was in a low place.

And I would try anything to get out of that place. But my natural skepticism saved me from Satvatove. During their courses, they divert your attention from their tricks in various ways. You participate fully in difficult, emotionally- and psychically-draining experiential exercises ("processes").

This takes over much of your thoughts, so you have little space to notice much else. They assign new meanings to words you know well and if you're open minded, it sounds plausible and you get sucked in. And before you know it, you start believing that black is really white and white in fact means black and now the world makes much more sense. This is reinforced by others around you.

A lot of their ideology is total nonsense but it sounds clever at the time and it binds you to them, because only other Satvatovians will understand what you're talking about. Anyone else can see it is meaningless. Of course, there is some good basic psychology on human relationships in there. And many people who simply attend the basic course, and if their lives are okay when they go, may quite enjoy the experience.

It's time out of their busy lives, to take stock and other people they meet are often interesting. The good psychology stays with them but they forget the slight weirdness of the experience. And so these people may doubt the naysayers. But I see this group as dangerous for anyone in a vulnerable state.

A primary aim of Satvatove is to get people to sign up for their courses and to get others to work for free. So if you go hoping for new insight into life which will sustain you, you will not find it unless you give over your life to Satvatove. But then you are trapped.

I did witness group humiliation by volunteers and the course facilitators, when anyone challenged anything or disagreed with the Satvatove way. There are better ways to spend your money and I suggest that you don't need Satvatove to make the most out of your life.

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How would I sum up the Satvatove high, in one sentence? Falling feels like flying, for a while.

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John Hanley is the father of Satvatove. Many of their non-sattvic ideas come from him and not from Krishna or from Srila Prabhupada.

By 1992, Hanley was a hyper successful guru with thousands of devoted followers, but two decades earlier, he was just a 26 year old kid in a cheap suit, walking into a hotel ballroom, not to lead a seminar, but to take one. It was put on by a company called Leadership Dynamics Institute or LDI. On the surface, LDI sounded like the seminars Handley eventually led in Lifespring. And it was, at least until you stepped inside the seminar room and saw the giant cross in the corner and the steel cage and the casket.

LDI took an unusual approach to personal growth. It was bloody, it was violent. The trainers berated, abused and humiliated participants.

They even tortured a few until they had a breakthrough and Hanley's breakthrough led him straight to the top of Lifespring. On the last day of Hanley's seminar, his trainers stuffed him inside a casket and locked it.

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"My ex attended one of the advanced courses and it was horrific."

This open sharing is buried deep in the comments section of one of the posts on this website. It is worth reposting here as a proper review:

Satvatove… I remember them.

I followed two of their basic communication courses when David Wolf and Marie Glasheen were just starting up in Alachua, about a decade ago or so.

Back in that time Marie (Malini dd) was a single mom, whose ex worked at the University of Florida.

Many know David (Dhiragovinda das) as a terse, distant personality. He is well known for authoring The Prominent Link, a controversial book to bridge the gap between ritvik and the main stream ISKCON ideology.

This is a somewhat typical story. David’s marriage wasn’t all that solid. Despite being a counsellor, his interactive manners are cold and distant.

He and Marie hooked up.

It was a great chance for her. Under his guidance they created these basic communication seminars, which were initially geared at developing empathic listening skills. I personally found them helpful.

They were straight-forward and did not involve any krishna stuff.

Over time the seminars were formalized under the name Satvatove, using and training facilitators, and adding more advanced courses. David and Marie spent more and more time together.

His wife had several very open discussions with my ex about her displeasure with this bizarre relationship between David and Marie and suspected they were having an affair.

My ex attended one of the advanced courses and it was horrific. The exercises were pretty extreme and everything was expected to be kept strictly secret.

The entire course took place at a hotel over the course of a weekend. Attendees were not allowed to go home and there was to be no interaction with non-attendees in the evenings. The entire course was geared at completely breaking down one’s personal barriers and resulted in some utterly bizarre events.

One exercise took place on an imaginary island where there was not enough food for everyone.

Every turn, participants decided on who they were going to share food with and who not. Invariably, one person was to die of hunger. The exercise continued until there was only one person left on the island. Reasons for the decisions were to be shared openly and honestly.

My ex was “voted off” before they were half-way through and one participant told her the reason he felt she was not entitled to food to survive was that she “was a completely useless human being.” Participants were essentially played out against each other and it caused some serious issues with personal hurt and insult.

In another instance during this course, the mental breakdown was so intense that one participant admitted to sexual deviance and other things no one in his right mind would otherwise share. It destroyed his reputation in the community. As the course progressed, things just got more intense and awkward.

The “finale” involved confronting one’s greatest fears in the fashion of “feel the fear and do it anyway” through theatre skits. My ex ended up dancing around in a pink petticoat, singing Shirley Temple’s song On the Good Ship Lollipop… The cherry on top was one of the participants losing her mind and irately walking into a wall so hard that she broke a front tooth.

David did nothing. He was completely passive, as if he had no clue on how to deal with the situation.

The lady was taken to the hospital, where she was diagnosed with a nervous breakdown. She was totally normal before the course started. It took her months to fully recover.

My ex was shaken for weeks after this ordeal.

Over the years Satvatove has grown out of its ISKCON- and devotee-focused approach to encompass society at large. I’m pretty sure it makes very good money. Both David and Marie are nice people, as far as I have known them personally. But that is just it: they are people.

Normal people like you and me, with the same good and bad sides.

As many of us were “enamoured,” so to say, with the ISKCON dogmas for so long, so were they. We broke free, they didn’t. There are various responses to a growing awareness of the reality of cult indoctrination.

Some simply see the light and leave altogether; some leave and need to crusade against the cult; and some stay anyway, because there are all kinds of things at stake emotionally and/or materially that prevent them from leaving. It spans the gamut.

I have seen several examples of people kind-of-leaving, but hovering on the fringe, taking parts of ISKCON and molding those into a new set of more liberal dogmas that they can live with. This often involves livelihood.

Graham Schweig and his Secret Yoga come to mind.

I see what Satvatove has become in a similar way.

On their About page, it states under Marie’s profile: “Marie-Helene specializes in the mastery of awareness of limiting belief systems, which also encompasses the subconscious beliefs that sabotage you.” And yet she happily remains on the fringe of the limiting belief system of the Krishna cult. Go figure…

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Satvatove is dead, soulless and evil.

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Go to *** David and Marie.

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It's okay to stop pretending that Be-Do-Have is sattvic. It's okay to stop pretending that Satvatove is sattvic.

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I hated my Satvatove seminar experience and I wish that I had tried to sue them. I think you have a limited time-window within which you can sue them.

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To live Be-Do-Have is to maintain a highly rajastic ("passionate consciousness") state of being. To pretend that Be-Do-Have is sattvic ("clear consciousness") is to engage in self-deception. When we not only live Be-Do-Have, but also convince ourselves that Be-Do-Have is sattvic, then we add tamasic consciousness ("delusion") to the mix.

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Satvatove is anti-sattvic and anti-sanity.

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I don't HAVE to speak out against Satvatove. Rather, I GET to speak out against Satvatove. And I am grateful for this opportunity.

Guest

I feel grateful to this wonderful website, for freeing me from the Satvatove mental conditioning, and for helping me find my way back to my true self. Haribol.

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I haven't been around Satvatove for years, but my experience was ghastly, long lasting, and life-damaging. I gained little from the program that I hadn't already gotten elsewhere, apart from some theoretical knowledge about active listening.

The irony is that they don't practice active listening, though they describe it fairly accurately. It's mostly a bunch of reframing mixed in with gaslighting.

I would strongly advise anybody and everybody to stay well away from them. You may have gotten away in one piece, if you didn't ask the wrong questions, or make the wrong observations within earshot of the wrong people, but not everyone is so lucky.

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To the extent that we’re genuinely living intentionally, living on purpose, with purpose, then there’s no room for manipulative groups like Satvatove and there's no room for life-draining people like David Wolf and Marie Glasheen.

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Highly sophisticated rhetoric of invalidation

In Satvatove's fake spiritual scene there is actually a well developed, highly sophisticated rhetoric of invalidation.

As long as you report happy, happy experiences with Satvatove, through your happy stories, you validate the group trance and people are nice and sweet to you. As long as you have nothing but good to say, you are one of the tribe.

But...if someone tries to report that they've incurred harm--WHAM they get zapped by the rhetoric of shame, because their harm report threatens to disrupt the Satvatove group trance.

Satvatove's "get over it" line is the favorite cry of abusive people who don't want to be called on the damage they have done, and who want to be free to relate to people as objects and can't cope when you stand up to them as a person.

"Get over it."

It's the cry of a two year old in an adult body who can't cope when confronted with the cause and effect trail of harm that person has done.

As for victim, a great way to eradicate all notion of interpersonal responsibility is to declare "there are no victims".

That means one no longer has to ponder that one's actions could potentially help or harm others. If victims don't exist, you're free to blitzkrieg your way through life, and not care about anyone you run over. They don't exist as people.

And "there are no victims" is also a way to free a powerholder from the notion of ethos of care--that to the extent one has power, one is accountable for the proper and benevolent use of that power.

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Satvatove is a heart parasite.

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When I live Be-Do-Have, or when I live Satvatove principles, I feel so profoundly disconnected from my real self. As I metaphorically flush Satvatove principles down the toilet, more and more every day, I feel myself reconnecting with my true self and essence, and also with God and with Srila Prabhupada.

Guest

David and Marie self-identify as having certain qualities, and they present to the World as people with those qualities. That is their "being", and it serves to make themselves feel a certain way, and it puts them into a specific psycho-physiological state.

But it's okay to pay more attention to who they really are, as shown by their actual behavior (their "doing").

It's okay not to be taken in by Satvatove's word games and mind games. It's okay to distinguish illusion from reality.

Guest

It's okay to question the ideas that Satvatove takes as self-evident. It's okay to research the history, methods and teachings of Lifespring.

It's okay to trust yourself more than you "trust the process". It's okay to expect ethical behavior from David and Marie, and to hold them accountable.

It's okay to feel disgusted by what you see and experience in Satvatove. If after careful consideration, you see that Satvatove is not a good thing, it's okay to speak out about that.

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Satvatove is a façade. It's Lifespring behind the mask.

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The purpose of Satvatove is the suppression of the real self.

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Lifespring (of which Satvatove is basically a carbon-copy) was a national movement in the 1970s and 80s. Hundreds of thousands of people went through Lifespring seminars.

The company had offices in at least 30 different cities: San Francisco, Portland, Seattle, Philadelphia, Chicago, DC. And the folks Lifespring signed up weren't just lost twentysomethings. They were CEOs and politicians and government officials, people with their hands on the levers of power in America. DARPA, an arm of the Pentagon tasked with creating secretive cutting edge technology for the military, put their top people through Lifespring.

Lifespring said it was on a mission to change people's lives but it didn't always change them for the better. You can find dozens of lawsuits filed by Lifespring participants, who claimed the seminars scarred them for life. One man walked out of a seminar and had a psychotic break, then stripped naked and assaulted a cop outside of a church. A woman swallowed a bottle of sleeping pills because she couldn't get the voice of her seminar leader out of her head.

Another woman said that after the seminar she suffered from epileptic fits, anxiety attacks, chronic depression and tried to kill herself. And then there was David Priddle. The guy jumped off the top level of a building. But it isn't easy to track down these allegations.

Lifespring had worked hard to bury them. When people came forward with horror stories about Lifespring, the company cut them a check to drop their lawsuits and keep quiet about what happened. Lifespring shut down in the 90s. But apparently Hanley never stopped putting on seminars.

He's still going to this day. Now, when you see a video of John Hanley for the first time, there's something familiar about him. He sounds just like David Wolf and Marie Glasheen, and just about every other seminar leader. But maybe that's backwards.

Maybe they all just sound like him. Hanley seems like an okay guy. It's difficult to reconcile his confident persona with the fact that he's responsible for all the damage Lifespring allegedly caused, or the fact that he's potentially putting a new generation of people at risk right now, because of his influence on copy-cat groups like Satvatove. If you ask Mark Fisher, a Pulitzer, prize winning journalist at the Washington Post, who investigated Lifespring in the 80s, he'll tell you that John Hanley is a con artist, a grifter, a man whose only goal in life is making money, no matter who gets hurt along the way.

Hanley was a convicted felon. You know, he'll probably go to his death without revealing just to what extent he is consciously trying to rip people off. And if you ask Scott Nugent, he'll say that John Hanley is something even worse, he's a force of evil. A man allegedly responsible for the deaths of at least three people, including Scott's aunt.

As you piece together the real story of Hanley and Lifespring, you get a story about a kid who got his start running small time scams in Milwaukee, with a guy named Dirty Old Fred. Hanley had been convicted of a felony before he turned 25 and he joined a pyramid scheme and rose up the ranks, until the US Government shut it down for defrauding people out of more than $250 million. In one version of the story, John Hanley didn't even start Lifespring.

He stole it from one of his oldest friends. And then he somehow transformed himself into a guru and started a movement that swept up David Wolf.

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The euphoria they feel may become addictive like heroin. And like any addict they feel the need to keep using.

This means further group involvement through the Satvatove post-graduate support system.

But like heroin, their high fades, despite increasing dosages. And ultimately, like any mood-altering substance, its effects can be debilitating.

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With Satvatove's help, you can look at a bad situation, and through a fairly simple exercise, you can draw conclusions about it that make you feel good. You use the power of creative interpretation to infer positive outcomes.

Essentially you make up your own reality, by selectively ignoring the facts in front of you. Got a bad performance review at work? Well forget about that—your negative reaction to it is just a "story" anyway—and remember the time last year when your boss said "Good work." Problem solved! (or to put it more clearly, Problem ignored!) At Satvatove you have peers telling you it's perfectly ok to think this way.

If you're a Satvatove facilitator or volunteer, it's ok to automatically assume, for example, that it's the unsatisfied Satvatove seminar participant's problems, not yours, that are causing their negative opinion of your company. Why face problems if you can simply decide they don't exist?

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Werner Erhard stole some stuff from Scientology, who came after him hard. He created EST, which became The Forum.

Lifespring is supposed to be quite similar to EST. And Satvatove is clearly very similar to Lifespring.

I wonder how similar Satvatove is to EST. Anyway, Erhard and L Ron Hubbard had a lot more in common—they were both carpetbaggers who abandoned their wives and kids and then made millions telling others how to take responsibility for their lives.

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Khyree Gcu
map-marker Berkeley, California

Satvatove

Satvatove is an intensively emotionally abusive and coercive workshop, primarily merging the discredited LifeSpring work with Hare Krishna/ISKCON cult teachings. I attended the Satvatove Fundamentals workshop in May of 2014; and although I am contractually/legally barred from sharing their specific Satvatove processes, I can freely state that during the workshop I experienced an extreme level of coercion, pressure and abuse; I can also share that I perceived both my physical and emotional safety very directly threatened at various points in the workshop.

The primary instructor is David Wolf, a long-term Hare Krishna/ISKCON operative who allegedly handed out $500-$2000 checks to victims of sexual abuse of the ISKCON/Hare Krishna cult, in exchange for the victims waiving the right to sue the cult (http://www.icsahome.com/articles/authoritarian-culture-and-child-abuse-in-iskcon). Although David Wolf denies this, he was the Director of the Office of Child Protection for ISKCON/Hare Krishna cult, which has a truly extraordinary and well-documented history of murder, kidnapping, torture, and raping of children.

LifeSpring (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lifespring), the organization which is the foundation for the work advanced by Satvatove, went out of business after at least thirty lawsuits claiming that participants in their workshops committed suicide or suffered serious emotional/mental damage. The company paid to settle some of the suits before trial and in other cases lost jury decisions. The fundamentals of Satvatove processes appear to come directly from the discredited LifeSpring work, and are mixed with the teachings of the Hare Krishna cult.

During the workshop, David Wolf specifically demanded that Satvatove participants do not use the restroom except during breaks, the timing of which was not clear. We were required to attend every portion of the workshop without any exception, and were handed work to be done during breaks that did happen. We were required to be in our seats after each break when the music, which David Wolf and his assistant blasted at full volume to call us back into the room, stopped playing. Anyone not in their seats by the time the music stopped playing was publicly shamed. Free time during the course was non-existent, and I was explicitly removed from the workshop after making a phone call to a friend who was having an emergency in her workplace. No refund was offered to me until I made clear that I would be filing complaints with authorities and taking legal action.

Participation in Satvatove requires agreement to keep their grossly abusive and coercive processes confidential, and thus I am unable to share the details of the full nature of what I experienced without putting myself at risk of being sued by Satvatove. Before making this posting I extensively discussed my concerns with David Wolf of Satvatove, who refused to remove the process confidentiality requirement, thus resulting in my making this post. It is my opinion that participants in Satvatove workshops should have the right to freely and fully discuss their experience in Satvatove without fear of legal action for breaching contract.

The ironic bottom line with Satvatove is that many of their participants are willing to accept an extraordinary level of abuse and coercion in exchange for information and skills that are actually freely available elsewhere, since the "communication skills" that Satvatove teaches are actually available without the abuse through other sources, such as Non-Violent Communication (NVC) and other schools. It is also blatantly obvious that numerous other participants of Satvatove have had extremely negative experiences (http://breaking-free.info/2012/11/11/about-you/) and are likely afraid to speak out against Satvatove for fear of being sued for breaching the confidentiality agreement.

Unless you desire to become part of the ISKCON/Hare Krishna Cult and to subject yourself to truly extraordinary abuse and coercion, I advise you to stay away from Satvatove. Whatever useful skills they teach are freely available from other sources, without all the negative aspects of the cult.

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Has any research been done on the ways that Lifespring-based "seminars" covertly use depatterning, to try to induce change in subjects?

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David, Marie and Daru Brahma wear dark glasses, made of their own egotism. These are so opaque that they can barely see you through them.

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Satvatove's "Be-Do-Have" does not come from the Bhagavad-Gita, it comes from L Ron Hubbard: https://***/florida/201410-great-city/what-is-scientology/the-conditions-of-existence.html

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David and Marie do not understand the Lifespring processes that they are subjecting people to, nor do they understand how those processes work. Their egos are so deeply emmeshed with their roles as facilitators and coaches, that they always double down, even when they are clearly doing more harm than good. They are living in an alternate reality of their own construction.

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Satvatove is the opposite of help.

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The term "transformational coaching" has been THE term for the type of work that came from Lifespring. When someone says "I'm a transformational coach" or "this is transformational coaching", that means that they're close to the new wave of what Lifespring became.

Lifespring-based seminars like Satvatove will have all the old Lifespring experiential exercises, like the "Mom-Dad dyad", "the red black game" and the "hug line". It's like playing Lifespring bingo.

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Satvatove? Unfortunately, I took two courses before finding info about Lifespring on the internet.

Satvatove is not all bad. Yes, some get something out of it. The ones I worry about are the ones that are allowed to take it that have severe emotional problems. That is irresponsible.

Yes, they are not completely open. Most of what I've read complaining about Lifespring is true and much of it applies to Satvatove also. The worst parts of Satvatove are irresponsibility about disturbed people, heavy proselytizing, and attempts at mind control.

They prey on the weak that need real healing, just like Scientology and Lifespring. Once I read about the histories of Werner Erhard and John Hanley, I knew immediately they were phony used car salesmen, who saw an easy scam.

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It's a breath of fresh air to read an honest review. The positive reviews of Satvatove on here are quite something.

We have individuals who are trying to deal with their own cognitive dissonance about an organization they perceives in a certain way, and other's -- MANY -- perceive in a different way. Honestly, a Satvatove review is supposed to deliver some information that would be useful to potential seminar participants. These positive reviewers just play mind games with themselves...and, are possibly even encouraged to do so by the seminar facilitators. As usual, no attempt is made to listen to, understand people who have opinions other than their own.

That would be pretty normal if one really cared about exploring a gap in perception. Their reviews are nothing more than Satvatove commercials.

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Misdirection is the foundation of prestidigitation...and of Satvatove.

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Satvatove co-founder David Wolfe took the Lifespring course, when he was younger. And Lifesprng was very similar to EST.

And as everyone knows, EST was based in some Scientology processes and doctrines.

Not at all surprised Satvatove uses brainwashing techniques, loud music, etc. These innocent and vulnerable seminar participants will wake up one day and realise the negative side effects they are experiencing in their life are attributed to these brainwashing techniques.

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Anonymous
map-marker Gainesville, Florida

Goole "Lifespring" + "decompensation"

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I'm not saying Satvatove is (or isn't) cult-like, but I think it's fairly well-established in research that highly intelligent people are just as...if not more...susceptible to joining cults.

I trusted my friend enough to give it a shot and I stayed through the whole thing. I was at a disadvantage, though...because I walked into the Satvatove seminar with pretty much zero experience of the actual company...with zero background knowledge on the long-standing subculture of group-awareness-training seminars...without knowing anything about Lifespring...or about its many carbon-copy offshoots...and without too many preconceived notions or concerns. As a result...I was unable to protect myself...in a healthy...sane and effective way...from Satvatove's inherent and finely-tuned psychological abuse...manipulation...and coercion.

As participants...we each paid hundreds of dollars to take part in the basic and advanced Satvatove courses. However...I'm not sure how many Satvatove staff members actually got paid...apart from the seminar leaders David and Marie. And our group was staffed by quite a few committed volunteers/trainees. If you pause to think about it for more than a moment...this is one of the fishiest parts of the whole thing.

I soured on the company during our Satvatove advanced course...while witnessing someone get seriously hurt. My participation in that advanced course was many years ago--if it had been today I would've done my research before agreeing. But there's more info out there nowadays and I'm more Internet savvy now than I was then.

I was also going through a rough patch in my life...and was thus susceptible to this kind of thing. If I had been on more solid footing...no doubt I would have found my friend's recommendation of Satvatove as too hard-sell...borderline cultish and *** It's a difficult situation. Try for a moment to think of it this way: suppose you found some magic thing that was the key to having a perfectly happy life. (Ignore for the moment whether Satvatove's courses do that or not.) If you found such a thing...would you want to share it with everybody? I think many people would. So wouldn't it be great...from that position...to share it with more and more people so more people could be happy - thus the rising tally of people you've given it to would be a cause for celebration. I'm simply trying to show the mindset from the perspective of those involved.

It's a shame...because there is some stuff of value in Satvatove. However...the gas-lighting...the lack of informed consent...the heavy-sell recruitment...the lack of any true accountability from the staff...the possibility of decompensation during a seminar...the coercion and the manipulation...keep me away from recommending it to anyone.

Also - because of its connection to Lifespring...the material of the Satvatove seminars can actually be found elsewhere in other forms. Not that I would recommend any of the Lifespring-derived trainings. If it smells like a scam...

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It is never too late to undo what was done to you by Satvatove. You are never too far gone.

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Satvatove, like Scientology, attempts to drill congruence out of people, to the point they can become a blank personality or a synthetic one. That is in keeping with their teachings that the way to achieve something is as simple as Be-Do-Have.

That is, figure out the personality traits of someone who has what you want, then act them out as you do as he or she does, and before you know it, you will have the fruits you sought. Sincerity and genuineness (read congruence) are not included in the equation. Certainly there have been mavericks within Scientology, and within Lifespring-derived trainings, who have had the courage or sense to be themselves. And their results reflected that.

But, every single one of them was eventually caught up with and either expelled from the ranks or converted into a play-acting automaton. Satvatove, like Scientology, creates conforming, compliant minds.

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Satvatove pretends to combine Lifespring ideas with Srila Prabhupada's teachings. But in reality, it distorts his teachings, to dovetail them with Lifespring. Lifespring is a jealous god.

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I have witnessed a very close friend become completely transformed. After dishing out their money, my former friend is not only a mess but a stranger.

I only hope that this website helped a few to look objectively at what they have been through and become themselves again.

Unfortunately, this mind-altering program has taken most of the objectivity out of these victims’ thinking. I thank you for this website and I hope that the exposure will lead to more media attention.

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Satvatove people treat their processes and doctrines as though they were handed down by God. They are unwilling to look at these as the fallible creations of human beings, with possibly mixed motives. And because of this, they have closed themselves off from the feedback loop from reality.

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The experience of people in the Satvatove seminar outwardly appears difficult. But when the application of the Lifespring techniques stops, some of them become ecstatic.

Have they achieved a sattvic state of inner peace? Or are they happy that the traumatic thing is over?

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While Satvatove certainly exists as a supplement to religion for some, to look for an official theology or liturgy, one could glance at Scientology or even further back to the New Thought Movement of the early 1900s. However, if Satvatove had an official doctrine from which it sprang, it would be Leadership Dynamics Institute (LDI).

LDI was started by William Penn Patrick, owner of Holiday Magic Cosmetics. He designed methods of self-growth for his staff, particularly salespeople, which included physical beatings and locking people in coffins. Before any accusations were proven, LDI was closed. Two famous students emerged from these seminars: Werner Erhard and John Hanley.

Erhard started est.

Hanley started Lifespring. A Lifespring graduate named David Wolf started Satvatove.

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If you have a tendency to "people please", Satvatove will try to use that to their advantage. It's amazing to see some people sing the praises of what is transparently a manipulative and self-serving scam of an organization.

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I never thought I would personally experience an assault of psychological manipulation of a real cult. I'm genuinely surprised that David Wolf's conscience doesn't compel him to close down Satvatove and make amends to the people who participated in his courses.

Any investigative reporters or adventurous folks willing to video tape the REAL experience at a Satvatove seminar (last day, in particular) and publish on YouTube, BitChute or Rumble???

That would certainly provide everyone clear evidence in a real, black and white form of the truth of what really happens behind closed doors. These comments are my personal opinions based on my experience with Satvatove, and not intended in any way to be malicious, untrue, or libelous.

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Satvatove bombards their seminar participants with images and ideas that obscure Lifespring's real philosophy and intent. Satvatove's actual strategy is to manipulate unconscious psychological factors to further their own ends.

Propaganda does not change the content of the unconscious itself--it manipulates its target by confusing one's conscious relationship toward the unconscious. L Ron Hubbard mandated this exact propaganda trick in the dissemination and marketing of Scientology.

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Anonymous
map-marker Ottawa, Ontario

More concerned with their own issues.

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The strongest impression I have of Satvatove is of them continually trying to “put me in a box”. Me connecting with my True Self and them consistently redirecting me to whichever box they wanted to put me in, at that moment.

Hence the analogy of brainwashing feels true. I was in a highly vulnerable state and I was allowing myself to go quite deep. Powerful emotions were rushing through me. And the facilitators and volunteers would continually be communicating to me with their actions: “No, not there.

This is where we want you to go.” It was beyond weird. It definitely felt like they had an agenda and like they were more interested in shaping me into what they wanted, rather than in allowing me to connect with and become the Real Me.

It felt like David and Marie were using us (the seminar group as a whole) to play out their own life issues and their own “spiritual” issues. They also seemed more interested in having us process the types of things that were significant to them, rather than allowing us to explore what we came to the seminar to process. Additionally, David and Marie seemed to lack the self-reflection and honesty to perceive and admit to themselves some of the underhanded things that they were doing in the seminar.

Unprofessional, unaccountable and unethical is generally how I would describe both the Satvatove facilitators and at least one of the volunteers.

I am slowly undoing the impressions that they have, knowingly or unknowingly, embedded within my psyche. It is quite a job.

And I have learned an important lesson about not automatically projecting good intentions onto people who just happen to work in the helping professions. The helping professions give the broken access to trusting people, who they can use to fulfill their own psychological needs, under the pretext of “helping” them.

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You can assume good intentions on the part of David and Marie. But if you do, that's a choice you're making, and Satvatove will hold you responsible for the consequences of that choice.

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Satvatove is mass-production oriented and cult-like. Not surprisingly, these negative qualities can be traced to Lifepsring's and Satvatove’s attempts to short-cut vital client-centered principles.

The more failure in producing a confident, independent-minded, self-determined client, the more Lifepsring-derived trainings introduce personality control mechanisms. That is probably the most cardinal of sins imaginable in actual client-centered philosophy.

With pressure to deliver on Satvatove's promises of immediate and permanent results, the training of practitioners becomes a rajastic, assembly-line like activity. On the one hand that helps to thoroughly crash train some workable skills, while on the other hand, it omits a more contemplative, sattvic, intellectual appreciation for the agencies at work that actually create a desired effect and the responsibilities that go with such practice.

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Unlearning Satvatove is an opening of the heart.

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Regret is your guideline. If you feel regret about having trusted the Satvatove process, that's your inner voice telling you how to live your best life.

That's your conscience guiding you! God is encouraging you, trying to keep your actions in alignment with your life's purpose, so you can fulfill your destiny while on the earth.

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Once people begin to understand Be-Do-Have at a deep level, they realize that they have been living this way for a long time, but that they just didn't have a name for it. And living Be-Do-Have is what caused their quality of life to gradually deteriorate.

When one lives Be-Do-Have for long enough, one's life becomes so bad that one begins to look for remedies. Some of these people end up looking for those remedies in groups like Satvatove.

But since Be-Do-Have is at the core of what Satvatove pushes, those who turn to Satvatove for answers end up taking poison as though it were medicine. True healing and transformation begins when one moves beyond Be-Do-Have and summons up the courage to let go of it.

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The Satvatove seminars utilize "experiential" exercises that dredge up deep traumas. In theory, the purpose is to bring things that you have repressed from your subconscious to the conscious level.

The dogma, or the idea, is that you can really face your demons head on, understand them, and eventually release them. The trainings do a great job of pulling up these repressed traumas. However, due to the very low empathic ability of the two Satvatove facilitators, these traumas do not get fully released, and some people will get stuck in traumatized loops afterwards. Unless they follow up with cult deprogramming, there is no mechanism for catching these things.

Satvatove is heavy handed when it comes to promoting their courses. They can be quite pushy/salesy.

Try your best to not be influenced by this. Best wishes.

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Be-Do-Have is poison for the soul. Satvatove is poison for the soul.

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This wonderful website helps us to see Satvatove's ugly face as it really is, without the mask. And in doing so, it allows us to heal our Satvatove-wounds, and to give them meaning.

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The more honesty and transparency, the more open my mind will be about something, even if I don’t like it. This is why it is difficult to respect Satvatove.

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Satvatove says they teach you to take responsibility for your life. What they really mean is that they teach you to be responsible for ignoring aspects of your life.

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Careful Consideration

Arbitration: Keeping the victims quiet

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There is a PDF copy of Satvatove's "hold harmless" form on their website. By signing the form, you agree to submit to arbitration, rather than suing Satvatove or resorting to court process.

We know that some people have bad experiences with transformational trainings (like Satvatove), or they develop serious problems as a result of participating in them.

And yet, it is difficult to compile any significant amounts of data on lawsuits brought on by victims or families of victims.

But that doesn't mean nobody had legal representation. It just means that their case, or dispute was brought to arbitration, a private and potentially unbalanced proceeding, as the contract they signed stated they must do.

It could also mean that the victim, or their family found out that an arbitration proceeding could be more expensive and traumatizing than the litigation system, leaving them seemingly without any other option but to avoid any legal proceedings at all. When it comes to these transformational seminars, there are records of settlements that can be found if you dig.

However, details are often scant since the victims are generally not permitted to speak about the settlement as a condition. And the victim was probably so traumatized before and during the arbitration process that they wouldn't want to anyway, understandably.

The other side of the coin is that victims can be threatened with lawsuits brought on by some transformational training companies, if they try to speak out against them, or facilitate a public forum to do so.

Such as in the case of Dan, a Legacy Center graduate who had to shut down his LegacyCenterTruth(dot)org forum, due to legal threats. The Legacy Center (like Satvatove) is a spinoff of the now defunct Lifespring, Inc (which, along with Landmark, was a spinoff of "est").

So, what exactly is mandatory or forced arbitration?

Forced arbitration generally binds the consumernot the company.

The way most mandatory binding arbitration clauses are written, the seller or employer retains its rights to take any complaint to court, while the consumer can only initiate arbitration. Forced arbitration severely limits consumer and employee options for resolving a dispute. Before any problem arises, you lock yourself into only one optionbinding arbitrationfor resolving all future disputes or problems.

Some contracts also name the arbitration company that must be used.

Arbitration does not follow clear, well-established, consistent rules and procedures such as those required for litigation in the court system.

The company or employer generally picks the arbitration company"the judge," which is not how the legal system works. Forced arbitration frequently costs more than taking a case to court.

I believe the majority of people who sign a contract like Satvatove's do not realize the extent as to what kind of rights they are giving away. Who, in their right mind, would agree to sign Satvatove's contract, after having read and carefully considered the contents? Are people reading it and fully understanding what they're reading?

Transformational training companies, in general, do not hire independent organizations to study them, so they have no data whatsoever on percentages of psychosis vs placebo.

The techniques used in Satvatove are extremely intensemore akin to Army bootcamp than psychotherapy.

They break you down to build you up, which means tearing down your healthy psychological defenses with aggressive overload techniques.

Some come out of these workshops healthier, but a significant minority do not.

Most people have no clue of the risks.

When someone goes rock climbing, they at least have some notion that they could fall off the mountain and break their arm or die.

While I'm not necessarily in favor of making extreme therapy illegal, I am very opposed to mandatory arbitration, high-pressure sales under duress, and many of the basically brainwashing tactics used at Satvatove's workshops. People should know what they are getting into, know the *real* risks, and have their full legal rights intact after taking a dangerous seminar.

To conclude, the mandatory arbitration clause in transformational training contracts must be done away with, so that the public can have more protection, rights and access to information, regarding the potential dangers of trainings like Satvatove's, ultimately forcing these groups into regulation.

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I don't really care who's right or wrong here. I'm just happy to see some honest and open discussion about Satvatove.

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The writings of people who have left Scientology can offer interesting insights for those looking to more deeply understand what was done to them in Satvatove, and what they did to themselves and to others, while under the influence of Satvatove ideas.

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The three organizations of Erhard’s Transformational Technologies, John-Roger’s MSIA, and Hanley’s Lifespring, dominated the Human Potential Movement in the 1970s and moved deeper into the corporate world in the 1980s. Satvatove carries on this same scam artist tradition.

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The Lifespring processes that Satvatove administers put seminar participants in an extremely vulnerable state. And it's really easy for Satvatove facilitators and volunteers to take advantage of them.

A lot of the tactics, it's either fear or flattery. "You know, I can see how special you are." And what's tough is that there's so much shame already around therapist abuse, and then you layer all these various Lifespring thought-reform techniques into it, and the abuse of power. And it just gets complicated. And there's even more guilt and shame, you know.

And like: "Maybe, did I bring this on myself?

And do I want to talk about these things?" People come to Satvatove looking for healing and they stumble into the wrong people, people like David and Marie. It's pretty obvious that the Lifespring techniques are a powerful brainwashing tool, but also that the people who administer the, the Satvatove facilitators, are interacting with people at their most vulnerable.

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A common experience among the Satvatove survivor community is the phenomenon of "waking up." Waking up is the realization, often sudden, that the treatment one received within a program was wrong, immoral, and even abusive. It can be a disorientating, uncomfortable, and emotional process both for the survivor and for their loved ones, as they quickly shift from a positive or neutral view of the program to a negative one and begin to acknowledge and cope with the trauma they experienced.

Abusive programs like Satvatove work hard to get their subjects to believe the abuse is normal or justified, often through a regime of "seminars" and "coaching" that is aimed at destroying the self-worth and independence of survivors. Seminar participants and coaching clients are bombarded with messaging that they are unloved and unlovable, that they deserve their abuse or that traumatic experiences were their fault, and that the program is saving their life so they should be grateful to their abusers. Attack therapy, LGAT (large group awareness training) seminar tactics, cultish love-bombing and jargon, and other fringe practices are presented as normal and mainstream, and Satvatove survivors often have no way of knowing the truth. This can engender a sense of trust and gratitude towards the program and causes many survivors to realize they are being abused even as the abuse is occurring.

Often, some piece of the psyche understands the true situation. However, a thought-stopping pattern arises, where doubts about the Satvatove program are subconsciously suppressed to avoid the cognitive dissonance inherent in the situation. Sometimes, these thought-stopping patterns are not sufficient once a survivor joins the survivor community and is exposed to frank discussions of the practices and circumstances within the Satvatove program. Hearing someone else describe the program in realistic and honest terms can provide a new paradigm with which to view the experience – a paradigm which can prove hard to deny.

This seeds of doubt can grow and blossom in the mind into the healing realization that one was abused. This starts the "waking up" process. Satvatove survivors often begin to mentally review their memories of the program, examining each scenario with their newfound clarity. They begin to question long-held assumptions.

This can be an extremely painful process. Some survivors may struggle with mental and emotional well-being during this time and may be prone to outbursts and become disruptive, or they may become withdrawn and depressed as they begin to cope with the reality of their trauma. Not every Satvatove survivor has the same experience. Some remain aware of the abuse during their program.

Others come to this same clarity very soon after leaving. But waking up is an extremely common occurrence among survivors, and may not occur for years or even decades after leaving the program. Sometimes, the longer one has been out of the program, the more intense waking up can be.

Because of this situation, the resultant emotional turmoil may be completely uncontrollable for a Satvatove survivor, it’s important to be understanding, compassionate, and empathetic with those who are waking up. Hare Krishna.

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Satvatove is a trance-formational training.

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Though the Satvatove Institute is distinct from the Lifespring company, Satvatove could be said to be part of "Greater Lifespring" or "the Lifespring Movement", since it clearly follows the Lifespring traditions and worldview and use the Lifespring experiential exercises (aka "processes"): https://***/2022/10/30/good-cult-podcast-explores-the-lifespring-movement.html

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I will pray to Krsna for the destruction of Satvatove.

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Stay away from Satvatove. If you are a well-adjusted person in a good place, it will be a waste of time and money.

If you are in a weak place in your life (money, job, family, love life) they will exploit it by filling you with "empowerment" and other feel-good mumbo-jumbo. I had a very bad experience with them.

Paradoxically, I agreed with many of the lessons the facilitators were giving, but they don't tell you anything that can't be found in any self-help book, or licensed therapist, or some beginning philosophy classes. Their authoritarian tactics of not allowing discussion during training lectures, or to question the facilitators, raises too many credibility questions.

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"Good Cult," is a 6-part podcast about "Lifespring," a self-help humanistic empowerment group that the podcast host, River Donaghey, grew up in. The podcast is fascinating, because River Donaghey is such an integral part of the story.

It provides a really interesting deep dive into the history of Lifespring, exposing its disturbing and dangerous content and methodologies. But the most interesting aspect of the podcast, to me, is how it reveals and documents, in real time, the host wrestling with his own contradictory feelings about and experiences of the group. And if you want to read more about Lifespring, there are two great articles I can recommend. The first was published in D Magazine in 1988.

The author Marty Primeau describes her experiences–including details about the various 'empowerment' activities that participants engage in–attending one of Lifespring's five-day introductory seminars in Dallas, Texas. And the second was published in 2005 and archived on the website "Cult Education Institute." In that piece, author Kirsten Marcum details how her life changed after attending a series of Vistar seminars in Minneapolis. Vistar was another self-help group that was founded by a graduate of Lifespring (just like Satvatove was started by a graduate of Lifespring).

Marcum gets sucked into the group as she attends seminar after seminar, and eventually finds herself exhausted from the constant recruitment and fundraising that she was required to do. She also recounts her deprogramming and explains how she eventually found her way out of the group.

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Healing from Satvatove

Satvatove conflates the Gaian life force with the Divine Source Energy.

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Satvatove conflates the Gaian life force ("apara prakriti") with the Divine Source Energy ("para prakriti"). That is what it means to be a "sahajiya".

Gaia is a name used in bioscience for the ecosystem when its actions are conceived of holistically.

Gaia is also an ancient name for Mother Earth, or if you will, the Earth Goddess. The Gaian life force is therefore the living energy created by the ecosystem. You are a part of the ecosystem, therefore this living energy can be felt within you. For example, when you breathe, the Gaian life force is actively involved in the process.

The Gaian life force has three aspects: creativity, preservation and destruction.

The Gaian life force inspires birth and life, but it can also inspire the energy of violence; when one animal hunts and kills another animal, that would be an energetic expression of the Gaian life force through natural instincts.

This isn't exactly the same as Divine Source Energy, because Divine Source Energy is purely spiritual. But the Divine Source is ultimately the source of all things, and that includes the energies which make up the material universe.

This is not to say that the Gaian life force is evil. You need the Gaian life force for as long as you physically live in the world, but you need to keep your personality centered in an awareness of the Divine Source Energy.

The Gaian life force is empowering, but it can become a channel for self-serving expressions such as manipulation, gaslighting, self-deception and/or coercion. Love and service are the only expressions associated with the Divine Source Energy.

Seminar participants and coaching clients can keep in mind that the Gaian life force is expressed by Satvatove's facilitators, coaches and volunteers in a wide spectrum of ways, not all of which are for the highest good of the seminar participants and coaching clients who are on the receiving end.

The trick to integrity as a Satvatiove facilitator, coach, volunteer, coaching client or seminar participant isn't to suppress your negative emotions, but to center your awareness in love and service so that you don't become stuck in manipulation, gaslighting, self-deception and coercion.

When a Satvatove facilitator, coach, volunteer, coaching client or seminar participant is fully feeling all of their emotions, they are fully connected to the Gaian life force.

For the living individual, there are always two mental/emotional systems; there is the mental/emotional system which arises from the Divine Source Energy and the mental/emotional system which arises from the Gaian life force.

Your awareness of both the Divine Source Energy and the Gaian life force is essential to a clear ("sattvic") state of consciousness.

As a living Earthling, the interplay of the Divine Source Energy with the Gaian life force is a lifelong synergetic relationship. Likewise, the creative aspect of the living Earth is expressed through a synergetic relationship between the Earths ecosystem and the Spiritual Realm. The beauty of the natural world is a reflection of the aesthetic essence of the Spiritual Realm. As a spiritual being operating a physical body on Earth, you are in the heart of this creative synergy.

The Gaian life force is the fusion of bioenergy with the intelligence of the Spiritual Realm.

What might be described as mental and emotional waveforms arise from the Spiritual Realm. These mental and emotional waveforms connect with tangible forms of bioenergy. It's their complementary relationship which makes human life possible, as well as making all life on Earth possible.

The complexity of the human mind and the energies which make up life can't be comprehended fully with pure logic.

Ultimately you must learn to apprehend this information intuitively. And it is valuable to be able to make distinctions between the Gain life force and the Divine Source Energy, especially if you will be interacting with Satvatove.

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I continue to hope that, one day, Satvatove will cease to exist. And that the harm they cause, and that the manipulativeness they embody, will come to an end.

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For all the effectiveness of the training regimens instituted to teach the skills of communication in Satvatove, perhaps the most important client-centered ability is not only omitted but the opposite is trained in. That is congruence.

Congruence is the term Carl Rogers uses to describe a person's natural ability to fully and comfortably be themselves, without imposing themselves upon the client. Congruence is being oneself as a person, and not attempting to conceal it by creation of a façade, like the false self created in Satvatove. By establishing congruence the client has the security of the sense of knowing exactly where the facilitator, coach or volunteer, stands at any given moment.

Without congruence they do not. That is critical in establishing the conditions necessary for self-actualization.

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I, too, have had “the Satvatove experience.” In fact, I attended the basic and advanced courses. Fortunately, I finally woke up to the fact that I was involved with a cult.

Most of us have the notion that a “cult” refers primarily to those people who sell flowers on the street and ask for donations.

Consequently, when a well-dressed, professional, articulate group like Satvatove is introduced to us, we don’t recognize it as such. Actually, Satvatove utilizes the same mind control techniques common to most cults: group hypnosis through guided visualizations, playing unfamiliar games for no apparent reason, submission to a leader/facilitator through an enforced set of “ground rules,” and intolerance for questioning anything having to do with the validity of the group.

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Part of healing from the Satvatove seminar (and coaching) experience includes reevaluating, and letting of, the Scientology dogma of "Be-Do-Have", which Satvatove forcefully preaches. But in addition to freeing oneself from Be-Do-Have, it can also be of great value to carefully reconsider the Satvatove dogmas of "survival mode" vs "living mode".

What is the actual effect of these contrasted concepts on one's consciousness?

And for those who are interested in Srila Prabhupada's teachings, how do these concepts relate to Srila Prabhupada's comment about "enough sense gratification to keep body and soul together"? It's can be worth looking at deeply, courageously, introspectively and honestly.

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In retrospect, there really is no such thing as a free lunch. To truly benefit from Satvatove, you need to prepare in advance for the experience.

I wish I had known that Satvatove used the same structure that Lifespring used, and many of the same experiential exercises. I went into Satvatove very unprepared and that limited the benefit that I was able to get out it. I wish that the Good Cult podcast (about Lifepsring and its derivatives) had been around when I did the Satvatove seminar. That podcast is the single best introduction to this type of healing modality.

If people know in advance the details of the processes that they will be put through, this would greatly increase the potency of the seminar. In general, when Satvatove graduates promote the course to friends and family, they are very vague about the actual details of what will take place in. This is unfortunate. Not knowing what you are in for certainly creates an element of surprise.

And this undoubtedly adds to the emotional drama of the seminar, but it also unfortunately impedes its healing potential. Do you simply want you friends and family to have a temporary emotional dopamine high? Or are you committed to helping them find deep and long-lasting healing? I'm a bit embarrassed by how lazy I was in getting ready for the seminar.

I could have invested time in reading Steven Pressman's book Outrageous Betrayal, but I just couldn't be bothered. That book goes into the history of Lifespring and reading it would have allowed me to have a more profound and positive transformation during my seminar.

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If you ever wonder why Satvatove people behave so unethically, look into the history of Lifespring: https://***/index.php?threads/lifespring-the-self-help-cult-that-breaks-minds.69879/

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I would not recommend Satvatove training to anyone for anything under any circumstances. There are many much safer options such as counseling from a licensed professional, group therapy led by a mental health professional, continuing education from an accredited institution, local support groups run by credible social service agencies, nonprofit organizations or churches/temples.

Getting advice from an old friend, mentor, or family member, would be preferable to attending a Lifespring-knockoff marathon training seminar with strangers. Satvatove has no published peer-reviewed study that offers scientifically measurable objective results to demonstrate that its training produces anything tangible, such as a lower divorce rates, higher grades, increased income, less need for medication, or professional counseling among its graduates.

Instead Satvatove offers testimonials that record the subjective feelings of its graduates. No one doubts that Satvatove training influences the way people feel.

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I found the following review of the Good Cult podcast on Podvine: "Fantastic insight and the story is told exceptionally well! There is a group called Satvatove in Florida that operates very similarly to Lifespring.

I watched Satvatove irrevocably change a close friend.

Groups/ cults like this must be exposed and shown for what they are because they destroy peoples lives, relationships and families not to mention the financial aspect. Keep up the good work!!"

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This website is clearly an expression of very deep love towards Marie, David and their various Satvatove cheerleaders. It may be "tough love".

It may be telling them things that they don't necessarily want to hear. But it is real love. We are taking a stand for them. We know that they don't have to settle for a life of defrauding others and victim-blaming people who they've put into a hypo-manic state.

I know and believe in my heart that they can make an honest living and contribute something of actual value to their fellow human beings. They are capable of more than peddling the used-up wares of conman and felon John Hanley.

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Word jugglery aside, you are basically paying David and Marie to put you into a manic state. The company should be called "Rajastove".

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Eve B Prh
map-marker Gainesville, Florida

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I benefitted so much from the course in general, but also had a difficult time with one of the modules. Before attending, I had heard incredible things from friends, and had also read the reviews on this site before attending. I can say that for the most part, I got a lot out of the course and walked away with some communications skills that I can see will be beneficial for me in day to day life and relationships. I also had an unpleasant experience with one of the modules as well as with the staff that had left me feeling quite depressed and unhappy afterwards. It's all very complicated for me as I went to the seminar to experience personal growth and create a shift within myself and my life. How was I to know that I would have a bad experience with the modules? What could have prepared me? I don't think anything could have, as it came as a total surprise to me that I reacted so strongly to their process.

Overall, because I had a bad experience with how the young people in my groups performed one of the modules, where I felt they had not followed the directions, which then caused me to feel emotionally defeated or "brokendown" by their techniques. When a young staff member could see I was upset, they then singled me out and started asking me questions about it in front of the group. I was the only person during the entire three days of the course who was explicitly asked to share my experience with the group. Which then I opened up to share my bad experience and really couldn't stop crying and had been feeling very emotional. An hour later, I asked the staff member if the facilitators or staff routinely ask people to share in front of the group, she said no, but the staff could "do whatever they wanted". The entire time the sharing was voluntary, except for when I had been singled out to share because I had a bad experience and was on the *** of crying. I still wonder why that staff member didn't just wait for the break to ask me if I was okay or whatever.

Then, after the course was finished I offered constructive feedback regarding my experience that "I felt somewhat obligated to share, and it would be better if staff members don't ask participants to share their experience and let it be voluntary."

Even though I had one bad experience with one of the modules, then I went on to sign up for the advanced course thinking I would similarly benefit from the personal growth and experiential framework of their program.

A week later one of the facilitators judged me for my post-course feedback saying that feeling "obligated to share" was me being like a victim and asked me not to attend the advanced course because of my issues with "victimization", and they didn't want me to be "victimized" by the advanced course. It wasn't ever communicated that the staff member would be more careful in the future how they use their authority.

How ironic that the issues that I actually live with and struggle with are the same issues that I was told that facilitator did not want me to attend the course because of. I consider my issues to be normal. I live a very normal life with not a lot of issues or major traumas. I can't remember the last time I had cried about anything, let alone had some meltdown about anything. If anything, I suffered mental/emotional distress undergoing what seemed to be a very normal psychotherapy module performed incorrectly by young group members, and then inexperienced staff member made the entire group uncomfortable by singling me out to share overly emotional feedback.

I'm guessing that previous attendees who had a negative experience similar to my own then have caused them problems, which now I am being put into some category of by them and their group. The facilitators and staff behaved in a way that have made me feel uncomfortable. Of course I decided not to undergo the advanced course after hearing this feedback from them, in addition to the emotional "breakdown" I experienced during the course, and subsequent questioning by the staff. I decided that a course with any more pressure in terms of pacing or growth perhaps wasn't right for me.

All of this seemed very ironic to me that this happened to me. The facilitators seemed more judgemental of me and my feedback because of past experiences with people who similarly undergo "breakdown" experiences..... and less interested in helping me work through any issues that I struggle with during the advanced course, which I was completely open to. The facilitator ended up dumping their issues they've had with previous participants who go through a bad experience during the course onto me. Saying things to me like "oh, this happens that people come to the course get victimized by the course and go into a negative place, and I don't want that to happen to you. After all you've shared about sometimes seeking negative attention, I don't want you to come to the course" I had told them in a previous conversation that my brother was autistic with asperger syndrome and I didn't get a lot of attention as a child and sometimes resorted to negative attention. They then used this against me as yet another reason I shouldn't be attending their self help seminar. I had a very normal childhood, am in graduate school, and have been suffering lately in aggressive competitive relationships feeling defeating to me and blocking my professional progress. That's why I was attending the course, really, to break through professional limitations due to my own shortcomings in communicating assertively. So after thinking about what they said to me and what other friends and associates had said about the pressure they experience, then I decided not to attend.

When I inquired about alternatives to the advanced course to the facilitator or intern coaches, then they suggested coaching. When I inquired about the coaching prices, it has a price list of $400 per hour for private coaching or a bundle of over 12 sessions with facilitators and interns for a bundled rate similar to the advanced course. These rates are all normal for coaches and everything, but they basically were telling me not to attend the advanced course which I could have afforded....and then to instead consider super expensive private coaching to work through my issues that I cannot afford, or work with the facilitators and their intern staff. They offered no other alternatives in terms of recommendations or alternative programs, therapy or otherwise, which could help me work through these issues that would be detrimental to my participation in the advanced course.

Apparently this is not a proper course if you have ever experienced being victimized by circumstances or experience conditioning for negative attention from childhood. These issues may come up for you and you may be considered unwelcome or incapable by the staff members to attend their course and experience personal growth.

I found their behavior to be judgemental and odd. That's why I'm posting this review. I'm not seeking any kind of retribution or money in return or legal anything from them. I'm a normal person who has a very similar world view to the staff and facilitators, having been associated with the Hare Krishna groups in the past. I even resonated with a lot of the philosophy foundational to the course. I learned a lot and also had a lot of realizations throughout the course that were very valuable.

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It can be of value to look at the features of Satvatove that tend toward entrapment. You can take look at the sum and substance of what Satvatove’s effective processes are, in order to set the table for analyzing what is wrong with it and how it is ultimately used to entrap.

If one only mindlessly makes a break and declares a wholesale rejection of everything Satvatove, there is always the risk of becoming as glued to it as ever, albeit from the opposition vector.

That is because one never takes the time to understand and come to grips with what salutary aspects of it may have kept one pursuing it in the first place. If one understands that, one can transcend the experience in a more desirable state than victimhood.

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For me, to withhold my valid criticisms of Satvatove, is to live inauthentically. Submission to Satvatove, in and of itself, is not actually a good thing.

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Lifespring-derived transformational trainings like Satvatove are rajastic, rather than sattvic. In 2017, John Hunter completed his PhD in psychology, contending that these brutal forms of Lifespring-style "personal development" trainings trigger a bipolar state (hypomania/mania), and that this experience contributes to a kind of religious conversion. This is consistent with what I experienced and witnessed during the Satvatove seminars.

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For years I didn't speak out, because of fear. I didn't promote Satvatove either.

That would have been total self-betrayal. But I didn't speak my truth. Why was I so scared of what a bunch of con artists would think about me, or would say about me?

The answer lies in the "fear process", which takes place early in the Satvatove seminar. if you've read about EST or Scientology, you may already know the experiential exercise that I'm referring to.

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What is Satvatove's educational mission? There is no educational mission in the traditional sense. Satvatove shows you how to suspend critical thinking and embrace a lifestyle where Satvatove is the foundation of your well-being.

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A self-help company called Lifespring marketed itself as a “personal-growth seminar group” and became popular in the 1970s and ’80s. But this organization stirred up controversies and held many sinister secrets.

It attracted hundreds of thousands of followers who believed the seminars changed their lives and could also change the world. But at what cost? Lifespring faced lawsuits from trainees that allegedly experienced adverse effects after taking the seminars. Many attendees claimed they suffered psychotic breaks afterward, some attempted suicide, at least 4 people died, and others checked into hospitals for months at a time.

River Donaghey’s parents attended Wings seminars, which, like Satvatove, is based on Lifespring’s teachings. Some believed Wings was a cult. In the "Good Cult" podcast, River digs into his family’s history, his personal experiences in Wings, and investigated Lifespring’s strange world. Along the way, he unearths the company’s controlling and deceptive tactics he did not know about as a kid.

River shares what he learns about Lifespring’s leader, John Hanley, a con artist and convicted felon who became a New Age guru. As River investigates, he begins questioning his childhood and the seminars that are still happening today. On the podcast, River takes listeners inside one of Lifespring’s seminars, and we’ll hear how John carried Lifespring forward in the 1990s. I think I may check out Kast Media’s “Good Cult”, from episode 1.

I'm curious to hear about River’s experiences, about why he wanted to investigate, and I'd like to hear a complete breakdown of Lifespring.

The episodes run less than 35 minutes on average. Supposedly, we get to hear from River’s parents, we get insiders’ perspectives from former Lifespring members, and all kinds of other stuff.

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That "breakdowns" that some people experience are part of the Satvatove process. You are confronted with new ideas… some make sense, and some cause you internal conflicts.

When you combine that with being tired, feeling the pressure to act in accordance with what the rest of the group is doing, and feeling motivated to "transform," a good number of people experience temporary psychological traumas. That’s part of the legitimate criticism surrounding transformational trainings that typifies a Satvatove meeting. It’s NOT HEALTHY.

It’s manipulative. It causes real problems.

Guest

Satvatove pressures (and often manages to get) participants to do things they usually wouldn't do. I feel ashamed for what I did in those seminars. But I'm not going to let that shame keep me silent.

Guest

Satvatove "transformation" is a process. It can be healing, validating and valuable to look at the process clearly, deeply and with eyes open.

Throughout the whole process, there is a feeling of helplessness in the face of Satvatove's impersonal machinery of control, which is carefully engendered within the seminar participant. The participant who receives the Satvatove treatment not only begins to feel like an "animal" but also feels that nothing can be done about it. No one pays any authentic personal attention to them as a spirit soul. Their complaints fall on deaf ears.

Everything that happens to them occurs according to an impersonal time schedule that has nothing to do with their needs.

The following states are created systematically within the Satvatove seminar participant. These may vary in order, but all are necessary to Satvatove's "transformation" process: (1) a feeling of helplessness in attempting to deal with Satvatove's impersonal machinery of control; (2) an initial reaction of "surprise"; (3) a feeling of uncertainty about what is required of them; (4) a developing feeling of dependence upon the Satvatove facilitators and volunteers; (5) a sense of doubt and loss of objectivity; (6) feelings of guilt; (7) a questioning attitude toward their own value-system; (8) feeling of potential "breakdown" (ie, that they might go crazy); (9) a need to defend their acquired Satvatove principles; (10) a final sense of "belonging" (identification).

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It's important to stay deeply connected to your own internal feedback loop. Otherwise, you may start to see yourself through David and Marie's eyes and may start investing more and more or yourself into helping them to achieve their goal and to get their needs met.

You may end up completely off track from your own life's path. The longer you allow David and Marie to keep you out of alignment with your true self, to longer it may take to come back home to yourself.

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map-marker Gainesville, Florida

Misleading and exploitative

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I should mention that while I think its a wonderful thing to teach someone to share their emotions, I find it appalling to exploit these huge emotional swings for a sales pitch. By the time the Satvatove advanced seminar was over, I saw some people whose states of consciousness were so altered I would have sworn they were drunk, had I seen them anywhere else.

And of course, after this came the big sales pitch.

I felt sick. Bring people into a room, strip them of their inhibitions and mental defenses, and then convince them to make an impulse buy. Its like shooting fish in a barrel. I thought I was going to throw up.

What a scam.

Im still trying to process what I learned from the Satvatove experience. What made it so sickening to me? I used to say that the difference between persuasion and manipulation was intent. But I really believe the seminar facilitators believed they were helping people.

So is my objection just the fact that I think Satvatoves courses are worthless?

Because who am I to impose my values on someone elses purchases?

Maybe its the bait and switch, that people came expecting a course on personal growth and were instead sold a dose of temporary euphoria. But Id still be appalled if the courses were sold completely transparently with the same sales tactics. And I cant even say its the sales tactics, because every salesman out there uses the exact same techniques, on a lesser scale, to make people buy emotionally.

If people bought rationally every time wed never have buyers remorse.

So I dont know. The best thing I can say is if I ever start asking myself these questions for any practical reason, it will be time to back off and reexamine whatever Im doing.

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Let's turn off our Satvatove "tapes", and free our hearts and minds from their agenda.

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Satvatove is transformative, but in a bad way.

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I wish to thank Pissed Consumer for your interest in an organization, Satvatove, which in its destructiveness is infiltrating various cities. Having myself been briefly involved with Satvatove, I see the desperate need of our community to be educated on the dynamics of cult membership.

Satvatove has been determined to be a destructive cult, and yet enrollment in the Satvatove trainings continues. The truth is that anyone can be sucked in, and unfortunately, too many are. Motivational/self-improvement cults such as Satvatove attract the goal-oriented, successful individuals of our society. It is frightening to think that various people, over the years, have taken these courses.

Many are still victims (yes, victims) of Satvatove’s manipulation. The mind-bending, brainwashing techniques used by Satvatove are very subtle, and those involved are totally unaware that they have been brainwashed or that they are involved in a cult.

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Be-Do-Have is totally rajastic. Was there ever any doubt about this point?

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The Satvatove seminar program was not so much developed by David Wolf as it was customized by him. It's a fairly unimaginative repackaging of the standard three-tier Lifespring program.

We could say that it's Lifespring, with a few Hare Krishna words scotch-taped over top of it. I attended two consecutive Satvatove events, with the hope of learning about social and emotional intelligence. I share my opinions based on my very real, face-to-face, personal experience with Dr David Wolf, Marie Glasheen, volunteers, and staff of the Satvatove organization. The Lifespring program that they deliver was first popularized by John Hanley Sr and it's dangerous.

Its design shows a familiarity with thought reform techniques. It's quite culty. I never thought I would personally experience an assault of psychological manipulation of a real cult, which is why I was easy prey. The Satvatove organization should to be investigated by authorities and probably closed down.

The public is potentially in danger and deserves to be protected from David and Marie. These two frauds scammed the gullible for years, what a couple of sleazebags. And they have an army of minions/volunteers, who are specifically trained by them in the use of fundamental mind control techniques, classic of cult methods for coercive persuasion. They put people in physically or emotionally distressing situations, to weaken their resistance to their Lifespring dogmas.

Satvatove seminar participants' problems are reduced to one simple explanation, which is repeatedly emphasized. And at the end, seminar participants get a new identity based on the Satvatove group.

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The rajastic sense of urgency that Satvatove promotes helps to focus us, and removes distractions in life, but it can take a toll on our health.

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Satvatove is an inversion of Krsna Consciousness, much like Satanism is an inversion of Christianity.

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I think part of the artificial euphoria, the "high," that Satvatove (and Lifespring before it) engineered into the ~programs~ was a direct result of having the burden of a long slog through traditional psychotherapy lifted from the minds and the souls of their customers. How relieved many must be at having the prospect of a painful, unflattering, and protracted self-examination waved away by the simplistic and superficial "magicians" who call themselves "facilitators." (LOL - reminds me of those TV experiments where they show how many people are willing to give up their PIN numbers, withdraw money from their bank accounts, and hand it over to a man posing as some kind of "officer" in a rented uniform.

It's the uniform, or white coat and clip-board in Zimbardo's experiments. Most people will take orders from an "authority figure," even if that "authority" is just a costume, pose, or phony title.)

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I was not impressed with Satvatove's slapdash and manipulative training. "Slapdash-tove" would be a better name for them.

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In episode 6 of "Good Cult", the podcast's host attends John Hanley's Quantum training. John Hanley tells the participants (who each paid $7,000.00 to hear him speak) that the key to success is to copy John Hanley, word for word.

It's as though excellence means to disappear and to become a vessel that is channeling John Hanley. It gives you some insight into why trainings like Satvatove are such complete and shameless carbon-copies of Lifespring.

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map-marker Belle River, Ontario

Mindblowingly unethical seminar.

Satvatove participants are locked up in a room, unable to leave except for meal time. They are assigned "homework".

They are not allowed bathroom breaks for hours on end, claiming it would be irresponsible to miss even five minutes of the seminar.

As you sit there for hours and hours daily, parts of your existence crumble before you, so that Satvatove can rebuild your identity from scratch.

It can and does get downright sinister. Part of this deconstruction is to air one's dissatisfaction with other seminar participants. Applying that technique ends up being cruel and shameless, with no consideration for reality.

The other baffling treatment participants endure, is to have their perception questioned whenever they disagree with the facilitators.

During the seminar, the facilitators dismiss doubts or criticism by telling each dissenter that it is only their interpretation. It can be applied to facts from their past (which the facilitator has no idea of) and even real time thoughts and feelings.

By this they mean that the participant has no ability to accurately discern what is real and what isn't and must rediscover reality with the facilitators' guidance.

Not surprisingly, according to a former Scientologist, the "tech" that such transformational trainings use is heavily borrowed from L Ron Hubbard. In fact, Lifespring evolved out of Est, which in turn evolved, partially, out of Scientology. And Satvatove is basically a "Krishnized" Lifespring clone.

Once the Satvatove seminar is over, and if participants are still engrossed, they can always help recruit as many people as possible, as well as volunteer. In fact, the manual labor during these seminars is down to volunteers.

Its free labor taken advantage of, to put it plainly. In the minds of those showing up to do it, they are helping humanity. Although it's by no means comparable to what Sea Org members endure in Scientology, the concept is the same giving one's time towards someone else's business, with the pretext of "transforming lives".

It's a pyramid scheme based on emotional fragility. Those going there are obviously not in a good place.

There were reports of breakdowns. Their goal is not to change the world, but to entrap people long enough to get them to recruit others.

As those of Scientology and most cults, Satvatove teachings are replete with jargon. When asking an indoctrinated friend what it was about, it was impossible to discern, as his explanations were laden with terminology he had appropriated from the cult.

One of the keywords to watch out for in discussions about Satvatove is "authentic". "Authenticity" is a state you reach through the program (through being depersonalized), apparently, as opposed to your natural one.

Devotees often use this term when praising the group or each other.

In the Satvatove advanced course; the level of indoctrination is gob-smacking, akin to that which follows a dramatic religious conversion.

You will see Satvatove graduates censoring their own speech as directed by the group. They will catch themselves expressing ideas naturally and will adapt them to those of the group, so they wouldn't stray one bit. The seminar leads to uniformity.

Among themselves, they will talk about "going back to normal life outside the seminar" and the difficulties of that.

New converts become unrecognizable to their entourage; their "Satvatovese", replacing their natural language. And they have that tendency of "speaking like drones".

Many of the comments in support of the program make heavy use of jargon, without any indication that those reading them can relate or properly understand the message.

Its fairly disturbing and justifies the observation that "they talk like robots".

They also engage in damage control when negative appraisals pop up.

The Satvatove seminar is not one of a kind. Similar ones, employing the same techniques, can be found across the world.

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It's important to have strong and healthy boundaries, and to not be too open or too "connected", before taking the Satvatove seminar(s). The facilitators and volunteers will repeatedly attempt to violate your boundaries, in an entitled way. It can be valuable to see that unhealthy behavior for what it is, and to gently push back against it, every time they try to do that to you without your consent.

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Self-defeating unconscious habit patterns are born during the trauma of Satvatove, where you felt misunderstood and unsafe. You felt insecure and unsupported during that abusive and unethical seminar, and you developed a way of dealing with it, by suppressing your real self, and this is now limiting you.

Keep in mind…you are not your Satvatove-induced behaviors. How you reacted in the seminar has nothing to do with how you live outside in the seminar.

That seminar is a totally contrived and unreal environment. It is created for the purpose of brainwashing and abusing you.

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You’re so much more than the limiting beliefs and attitudes that Satvatove holds. When you decide to change your life, that's when your "Satvatove tapes" become stimulated.

They resist real and positive change. They limit your beliefs in your capabilities.

But now that you know where they come from, they don’t have as much influence over you. You can choose to stop listening to their lies.

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Be-Do-Have thinking is spiritually and psychologically crippling. It has nothing to do with Krishna, with sattva-guna or with Srila Prabhupada. It has everything to do with L Ron Hubbard's "conditions of existence", and it is a foundational principle of his Scientology cult.

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There is a difference between repeating Satvatove verbiage, and actually living Satvatove. To live Satvatove is to fall asleep to God, and to become numb.

It is to take the coward's path. I know that now. I'm beginning to come alive again now and it's painful. It's really painful.

It's like being born.

But it's true. It's true.

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Satvatove is Lifespring, basically. Though there are a few superficial differences.

John Hanley founded Lifespring in 1974 and dissolved it in the mid-1990s. It was a positive and empowering experience for many attending its trainings. But there were allegations of harm. In 1987, Marc Fisher wrote an exposé on Lifespring in the Washington Post.

Fisher explained the company’s early growth came to a crashing halt in the early ’80s following a rash of bad publicity about psychotic episodes and even deaths during and after Lifespring trainings. Did Lifespring help people? What went wrong? How could the same organization do so much good for some and such harm to others?

Why do groups like Satvatove carry on that same Lifespring tradition, despite knowing full well that they will seriously harm at least some of their clients? Are such people simply considered to be collateral damage?

If someone is seriously harmed by Satvatove, does that even matter? What stories do David and Marie tell themselves about those people?

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Breaking free from Satvatove is an internal process.

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The rajastic culture of Landmark is very similar to the rajastic culture of Lifespring-derived trainings like Satvatove: https://***/watch?v=5G5pur55bt0&t=8230s

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You'll notice that the pro-Satvatove reviews on here are using tactical communication, to attempt to control and manipulate you. That IS what Satvatove is all about, after all -- getting other people to do what THEY want them to do.

But because Satvatove teaches deception, under-handed emotional extortion, and covert influence, it's not ethical. It's slimy.

It's a reflection of the mind of the jerk who concocted Lifespring, John Hanley, who was a con-man and felon who fashioned his tricks and tactics into an "awareness training" that made him lots and lots of money. It's sad when you think about it -- these scammers don't give a fig about anything resembling "commitment" or "integrity", but they sucker in those who do with their counterfeit cult-versions.

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Is Satvatove a cult? Yes, although not an overtly religious one. Like other cult organizations, Satvatove includes volunteer labor and fostering of dependency through vague promises, humiliation, psychological abuse, and a turning away from reality.

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map-marker Gainesville, Florida

Satvatove = Discredited LifeSpring + Hare Krisha Cult = BAD!

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I attended the Satvatove Fundamentals workshop in May of 2014; and although I am contractually/legally barred from sharing their specific Satvatove processes, I can freely state that during the workshop I experienced an extreme level of coercion, pressure and abuse; I can also share that I perceived both my physical and emotional safety very directly threatened at various points in the workshop.

Satvatove is an intensively emotionally abusive and coercive workshop, primarily merging the discredited LifeSpring work with Hare Krishna/ISKCON cult teachings.

The primary instructor is David Wolf, a long-term Hare Krishna/ISKCON operative who allegedly handed out $500-$2000 checks to victims of sexual abuse of the ISKCON/Hare Krishna cult, in exchange for the victims waiving the right to sue the cult (http://www.icsahome.com/articles/authoritarian-culture-and-child-abuse-in-iskcon). Although David Wolf denies this, he was the Director of the Office of Child Protection for ISKCON/Hare Krishna cult, which has a truly extraordinary and well-documented history of murder, kidnapping, torture, and raping of children.

LifeSpring (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lifespring), the organization which is the foundation for the work advanced by Satvatove, went out of business after at least thirty lawsuits claiming that participants in their workshops committed suicide or suffered serious emotional/mental damage. The company paid to settle some of the suits before trial and in other cases lost jury decisions. The fundamentals of Satvatove processes appear to come directly from the discredited LifeSpring work, and are mixed with the teachings of the Hare Krishna cult.

During the workshop, David Wolf specifically demanded that Satvatove participants do not use the restroom except during breaks, the timing of which was not clear. We were required to attend every portion of the workshop without any exception, and were handed work to be done during breaks that did happen. We were required to be in our seats after each break when the music, which David Wolf and his assistant blasted at full volume to call us back into the room, stopped playing. Anyone not in their seats by the time the music stopped playing was publicly shamed. Free time during the course was non-existent, and I was explicitly removed from the workshop after making a phone call to a friend who was having an emergency in her workplace. No refund was offered to me until I made clear that I would be filing complaints with authorities and taking legal action.

Participation in Satvatove requires agreement to keep their grossly abusive and coercive processes confidential, and thus I am unable to share the details of the full nature of what I experienced without putting myself at risk of being sued by Satvatove. Before making this posting I extensively discussed my concerns with David Wolf of Satvatove, who refused to remove the process confidentiality requirement, thus resulting in my making this post. It is my opinion that participants in Satvatove workshops should have the right to freely and fully discuss their experience in Satvatove without fear of legal action for breaching contract.

The ironic bottom line with Satvatove is that many of their participants are willing to accept an extraordinary level of abuse and coercion in exchange for information and skills that are actually freely available elsewhere, since the "communication skills" that Satvatove teaches are actually available without the abuse through other sources, such as Non-Violent Communication (NVC) and other schools. It is also blatantly obvious that numerous other participants of Satvatove have had extremely negative experiences (http://breaking-free.info/2012/11/11/about-you/) and are likely afraid to speak out against Satvatove for fear of being sued for breaching the confidentiality agreement.

Unless you desire to become part of the ISKCON/Hare Krishna Cult and to subject yourself to truly extraordinary abuse and coercion, I advise you to stay away from Satvatove. Whatever useful skills they teach are freely available from other sources, without all the negative aspects of the cult.

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One need not reject all of Satvatove, in order to escape and even to take a stand against its abuses.

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Satvatove is emotionally dramatic, but quite impersonal.

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It is conceivable that given the destabilizing power of the Lifespring brainwashing techniques, a Satvatove seminar participant could imagine that any scenario could have happened, while they were under the effect of those techniques. Unfortunately, that then becomes the perfect smokescreen for any allegation, whether it's true or not.

It's clear that there are huge risks around the Satvatove seminar, because it puts vulnerable people in an even more vulnerable state. But you will at times hear stories about how it has profoundly improved some people's lives. Is Satvatove truly worth the risk? There is also an interesting aspect of victim blaming to the Satvatove seminar.

They teach that seminar participants have to hold themselves responsible for whatever experience they get into. They are basically teaching you that it "takes two to tango". But they omit that in a situation of power imbalance, it takes one person to abuse their power. And this is a telling omission for people who are administering the extremely powerful Lifespring techniques, to people at their most vulnerable.

David and Marie are themselves deeply under the influence of Lifespring ideas, while they are facilitating these seminars. So if there's no neutral third party there, and the people administering these Lifespring techniques have this victim blaming viewpoint, that's a pretty worrying situation. It sort of makes you think, you know, how far do those views spread among people facilitating other Lifespring-derived seminars? And is there a culture of psychological abuse in these seminars?

It's patently clear that the wellness industry is growing and growing. People want a life changing experience that's going to make them feel better. And they've found something that can potentially do that. I've see the potential that the Lifespring brainwashing techniques have, both in other people and in myself.

Some of them seem to feel happier, truer, more at peace with themselves. The power of these brainwashing techniques can't be understated. But with techniques that make you that vulnerable, there needs to be some form of regulation, some sort of system that prevents abusive experiences from happening. For me, the Satvatove experience harkens back to Srila Prabhupada's teaching about "the cheaters and the cheated".

I would say that if we want to be cheated, then Destiny will bring us in contact with Satvatove. Or to put it differently, if we have bad intentions, we will be brought into contact with bad people (like David Wolf, Marie Glasheen and Daru Brahma).

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It's okay to disagree with Satvatove and it's okay to question David's and Marie's motives for doing this program. If you think that Satvatove is a bad program, it's okay to acknowledge that to yourself and to others.

You don't have to cop out, using weasel-word statements like "Satvatove just wasn't for me", which invalidate the fullness of your experience. If you think that Satvatove is bad, and that David and Marie have questionable motives, then it's okay to express that.

Getting real about Satvatove will help you and it will help others. It's okay to break code silence.

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People who strive to Be-Do-Have seem to "project" their own stuff onto others, much more than the average person does. It seems to be difficult for them to truly listen to others and to truly see others as they are.

When Satvatove people look at others or they talk to others, all they can see is themselves. They don't talk with you. They talk to themselves.

At you. In your presence.

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When it comes to Lifespring-copycat seminars (Satvatove is one of many), people seem to believe their particular seminar has done a lot for them, but based on empirical studies, they seem to not do much beyond make the participants have an increased internal locus of control, for maybe a few weeks. Some people do one training and walk away just fine.

Others get addicted to their particular seminar company (dependence, basically), for a while. And a small (but very important) percentage have some sort of a psychotic breakdown.

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How do you respond to Satvatove when they don't meet your expectations?

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I participated in Satvatove, an offshoot of Lifespring. John Hanley founded Lifespring in 1974 and dissolved it in the mid-1990s.

In 1987, Marc Fisher had written an exposé on Lifespring in the Washington Post. And Lifespring certainly had its failings. Unfortunately, some people died. Did Lifespring help people?

What went wrong? How could the same organization do good for some and such harm to others? Before he founded Lifespring, Hanley had run scams with his father-in-law. Was Lifespring Hanley’s latest scam?

Is Satvatove also a scam? I’d have to admit that a few Satvatove volunteers did go overboard at times, when they felt the ends justified the means. This is similar to what I've read about happening in Lifespring.

Maybe Marie and David should have zero tolerance when it comes to "renegade" Satvatove volunteers? Perhaps there is a high-level of self-importance among some Satvatove volunteers?

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After my "final stretch" process, during the Satvatove advanced course, I thought to myself: "is this a cult?: Yes, it was a significant and impactful experience in my life. I met some people and I learned about the techniques of reflective listening.

And yes, it is a cult. And yes, some people, me included, had terrible post-seminar experiences. My guess is a lot of people struggle with exiting the fold.

I got out before the PACT training...I couldn’t recruit others into Satvatove, in good conscience. AND the inner voice of my heart said “Run!” In retrospect, I dodged a BIG bullet.

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If you value courageous and authentic introspection more than peer pressure and superficial emotional drama, then Satvatove might not be for you.

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Out of the satvatove labyrinth

i pray to god (not any sectarian god) for the emotional and spiritual healing of all those damaged and mistreated by satvatove. i pray that god helps them to learn once again how to trust in themselves and in others.

and i pray to god for the satvatove leaders. i find it hard to believe that they are truly as evil as their behavior sometimes makes them seem. i want to believe that they too can heal, and can re-connect with their original goodness. the goodness that was present in them before they became who they are now.

i pray to god that the satvatove leaders learn to introspect, at a level that allows them to take full responsibility for the harm and damage that they have caused and facilitated. so that they may begin to try to make amends, to all those that they have harmed. and also make amends to themselves. it's a tall order, but the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

i believe this can begin healing the satvatove leaders, as well as all those victims that they prey(ed) on. and that they may all one day find their way out of the toxic satvatove labyrinth.

and into the healing light of something more real, substantial and honest. namaste.

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Satvatove is non-consensual boundary violation.

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As we start to let go of habitual thought patterns that we picked up through our contact with Satvatove, our behavior also begins to change as a result. And it all feels like awakening from a bad dream.

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If you feel a lack of "havingness", then retail therapy can be a self-sabotaging way of coping, as it depletes your bank balance, pushing you further into a sense (or even into a reality) of lack. An even more destructive way of coping it to engage in Be-Do-Have thinking, since that depletes your very sense of self, and leaves you feeling existentially "lacking", no matter how much money or good things you may have in your life. Consider that carefully.

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Speaking my truth about Satvatove works for me.

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David and Marie's hatred for Srila Prabhupada is so loud that it is difficult to hear the valuable things they want to share.

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My honest experience of the Satvatove seminar, especially after careful consideration of it, is incompatible with Satvatove's dogma of Be-Do-Have.

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People who run these seminars need to understand some basic things about psychology, even if they have no interest in becoming a psychologist. What's a psychotic break?

What does it look like? How do you handle it? How do you talk to the family? How do you talk to the other seminar participants who witnessed it?

What do you explain to the doctor? Most facilitators (including David Wolf) are not sufficiently equipped to deal with the energies that they are unleashing. Most start out being thrown on stage with a handbook on how to whip a crowd into an emotional frenzy. Finding out you can make a bunch of people scream and cry and share their secrets with a room of strangers is a powerful feeling.

Maybe too powerful. This job is made for you to lose your mind. Literally. Being a seminar facilitator, standing in front of a bunch of people and being adored by them, and people telling you that you're great and telling you that you saved their life...it's something that most human psyches are not ready for.

But if you don't have your arrogance under check, you won't be able to see all the "red flags" that are being waved in front of you. And you see this a million times in these trainings. That's one of the things that's dangerous. It's the arrogance of the facilitator.

I think back to a passage from John Hanley's memoir. You know, John Hanley used to say "People go the college and in their freshman year they have an intense breakdown and they commit suicide. And when that happens, do you blame the University? Do you say, 'Oh the college is bad, we should shut down colleges'?

" Lol, that's a very interesting thought experiment with a lot of mental gymnastics. if a University is claiming to make people's lives better, and claims to make people feel better, and someone commits suicide...try using that logic again. But if you have a company that promises people that they're going to do better, and you don't deliver in a big percentage of people and event hurt some of them, time to freaking stop and realize what you're doing. No.

you either learn to adapt for every type of human being who you have in front of you, or stop calling yourself a facilitator. How would a more qualified facilitator deal with the person during our seminar who harmed themselves? Should someone with a background in psychology have noticed the warning signs before things escalated in the seminar room that day?

Maybe part of the problem is that these facilitators don't have sufficient qualifications. And to be certified by the ICF, they weren't required to.

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I did not feel high and powerful at the end of the Satvatove seminar because of the amazing therapy or deep conversations. I felt high because they had stressed me out, both physically and emotionally, to such an extent that they had tripped my body's dopamine levels to a high.

And that is why I felt the way I did. Satvatove was one the fakest and least spiritual things I ever participated in.

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The Good Cult podcast is hosted by River Donaghey, who grew up in a knockoff of the Lifespring "Personal Growth Seminar Group", which has since been identified as a cult. Lifespring is where Satvatove gets their jargon, experiential exercises, worldview and seminar structure from.

It's also where they get their attitude from.

That attitude, which is a version of the perennial classic "I get to do what I want and if you don't like it that is your problem." The story is a very gripping journey through River's journey of peeling back the layers of misinformation & deception through conversations with former Lifespring members and victims, including his parents and family members of folks driven to suicide and untimely deaths by the seminars. It's full of cognitive dissonance and heartfelt moments.

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If your experience of Satvatove conflicts with what its cheerleaders report, then consider allowing yourself to speak up. It may be difficult for Satvatove cheerleaders to really hear you, with an open heart and mind.

But that doesn’t change the fact that this website reflects real people’s experience, even if that’s different than the experience of Satvatove cheerleaders. Only way to get the full picture is to have both sides of the story.

There's value to getting heavy, deep and real about this. Anyway, I love this website, find it very informative, and thank the people running it.

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map-marker Gainesville, Florida

Satavatove Institute has transformed my relationships with self and others

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Satvatove Institute has helped me tremendously in all life areas. I have participated in life coaching with both David Wolf and Marie Glasheen, and their 3-day foundational seminars, 7-day advanced seminars, and coach training program.

I can honestly say that I have never met two individuals who give themselves so selflessly to serve others as do David and Marie. David and Marie truly care, and want each person they work with to transcend their own limitations, and achieve the life they really want. In the seminars they have taught me, through tools such as reflective listening, how to enter someone elses world. This has helped me step out of my normal conversation style, where I am battling to be the one speaking, and listening to what I am thinking about someone saying instead of being with them, and relax into just being with them.

People get so excited when I listen to them, and I learn a great deal! In addition once i hear people they're more likely to listen fully to me C(: In the foundational and advanced seminars people are able to reveal their deepest thoughts and feelings of shame, fear, anger, sadness, depression, etc. with any emotional expression acceptable. I have seen so many people, including myself, open up in this safe accepting space, revealing all that was controlling them from underneath the surface.

After trust is built between everyone in the seminars, the participants learn tools to challenge each other to move beyond their current habits and beliefs that are holding them down, and develop qualities such as enthusiasm, joy, compassion, power, to move forward in creating the life they want. For example I used to work mainly for approval, always pushing myself so that others would like me, making sure people knew how stressed and hard working I was for sympathy. Now I work for my PhD in Chemistry out of curiosity, and to support my undergraduates, to serve others through my innovations, and, well sometimes still for approval (: The atmosphere around me, and more importantly in me, is so much less tense since coming in contact with David and Marie, I highly recommend them! Another aspect of David and Marie, in relationship to claims of them being in a Hari Krishna cult, is how accepting I have felt in my own practice.

I have experiences their deep devotion to god, and how they do everything in service to god. On the other hand I practice vipassana meditation, where no god or soul is mentioned. I join them in their own home as they practice they're spiritual practice, and I practice mine. I have seen again and again David and Marie supporting people whatever their philosophical or spiritual beliefs.

Rather than feeling pushed in any direction, I am supported by them to go even further into my meditation practice. By being with David and Marie I am confident people will become a better Christian, Hindu, whatever their belief is, and more importantly a better human being.

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It saddens my heart that organizations like Satvatove exist.

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It's okay to admit being traumatized by the Satvatove experience, or traumatized by the "final stretch" process. We don't have to keep lying to ourselves and others, to protect David and Marie.

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Our experience in Satvatove persuades us that it is not safe to reveal our inner feelings, because, based on what went on during the seminar, we think no one will understand us. We can’t express our vulnerability.

We feel embarrassed or ashamed when we don't resonate with Satvatove dogmas. "Surely no one else is questioning the seminar; I must hide my shameful self." This Satvatove trauma can even carry over into the outside World.

We anticipate how people (even people outside of the Satvatove cult) will react if we share our doubts or insecurities. We fully expect we will be rejected or the information we share used against us, because that is how things were in Satvatove.

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Over time, this causes our World to feel smaller and smaller. It’s more difficult to trust and allow people into our inner world, even innocent people who have no connection to the Satvatove cult.

Relationships become fraught with insecurity and doubt.

Satvatove trauma wears many disguises. This is just one of them.

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"Havingness" is a feeling or perception that can exist without reference to Scientology, Be-Do-Have, or Satvatove. When I think of "havingness" I would use the English terms "fullness, contentment, security, happiness." And I might add to me it is more a mental or spiritual state than one of actual physical possessions.

I get havingness from observing and appreciating collections of things. I love going to a high-end grocery store and seeing a beautiful produce department for instance. I don't need to buy any of the veggies; but I sure like feeling the abundance of Good Things Around Me. I get the same feeling in a giant used bookstore in my city.

There's nothing in that experience that requires Scientology, Be-Do-Have, Satvatove or anything related to it. Nor does havingness speak to how often you feel it (consciously or otherwise). I might argue that most of the time, most of us have acceptable-to-good havingness.

However, it can be useful to recognize when you lack it, so you can fix it in a healthy way. For instance, we can think of people who feel a little lost engaging in "retail therapy", or in "Be-Do-Have" thinking -- which may or may not be healthy responses.

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The concept of Be-Do-Have is quite useful for understanding Satvatove's failures. I'm sometimes surprised by how often people mistake "Being" for "Achieving." One example is people who say that Satvatove facilitators and volunteers are incompetent or badly-intentioned.

They confuse "being a competent and well-intentioned facilitator or volunteer" (in their minds) with doing ("helping people", or "feeling and expressing genuine empathy") or the end result ("people generally being better off, after a Satvatove seminar, or coaching session"). Such critics forget that "Being" is in no way dependent on "Doing" or "Having" (the end results). In fact, it is very possible to "Be" a highly competent and well-intentioned Satvatove facilitator and coach, without actually helping anyone via your facilitating and coaching (the "Doing"), and in fact harming them instead, and continuing to harm them, despite understanding the effect that you're having. You can still "Be" a highly competent, intelligent, introspective, ethical, perceptive, well-intentioned, expert and thoughtful Satvatove facilitator and coach, even if you knowingly cause long-term harm to every single person that you come into contact with.

And even if every person who comes in contact with you, is significantly worse off for the experience. I sometimes wonder if there is a pre-Hubbard source for Be-Do-Have, and I don't mean artificially reading it into texts like the Bhagavad-Gita. I'm curious because I don't yet know where L Ron Hubbard lifted that particular concept from. Was he intelligent enough to invent this mind-bending idea, or did he plagiarize it from more intelligent people?

The Be-Do-Have stuff is among the items that I haven't encountered elsewhere.

Or to put it differently, I've seen plenty of people use it, post-Hubbard, but have not yet found a source where Hubbard might have gotten it from. Perhaps it is his "gift" to the World.

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The problem with raja-guna (the mode of passion) is that it partially blocks our connection to God. When we have our consciousness in the goal, or when we live Be-Do-Have, we are deeply embedded in this mode of passion.

I acknowledge that Satvatove pretends that Be-Do-Have is sattvic, but pretending is not enough. The rajastic nature of Be-Do-Have acts on our consciousness, regardless of the story that we tell ourselves.

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Most of the Satvatove processes and concepts are plagiarized from Lifespring, without attribution.

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If a friend or family member invites you to take part in a Satvatove seminar, it's important to recognize their invitation for what it is: a cry for help.

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Those who promote Satvatove on this website show little genuine interest in facts or historical context, just their own "experience," which if taken at face value, is at best subjective, and at worst the self-obsessed testimonial of people who don't really seem to care about anyone or anything other than themselves, regarding Satvatove. That is, they are ultimately selfishly dismissing the pain and suffering of others, hurt by Satvatove. They offer nothing to support their opinions other than anecdotal remarks.

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