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Child support case being closed because no payment for over a year and children are of age

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Oklahoma Child Enforcement - Child support case being closed because no payment for over a year...
I have had a child support case for several years. My children are now 25 and 21 but my ex owes a little over $27000.00. Oklahoma child support enforcement is now saying since no payment has been made for over a year and they cant locate him that they will be dropping the case as of 08-31-2022. When I called child support enforcement they said there is nothing they can do unless I can provide a place of employment for him. I have given them all info I could dig up on him myself except a place of employment because hes good at running from job to job, working under the table or just not working at all. I told them that when paperwork was sent to me to fill out for all this information I had to fill it out or my case would be dropped. Why is it that I have done practically everything for them except find a place of employment for him and he gets to walk away free and clear. This man barely did any jail time maybe lost his licenses until he made Partial payments and was allowed to reinstate his licenses and yet now that the kids are grown and he has ran from this their whole lives practically now he will walk away owing nothing. If I would have raised the kids on the amount of support he paid I would be in prison for child neglect. My husband and and I worked out butts off to stay off of Welfare and raise our kids and pay his child support every month until the child support was paid in full. I thought child support enforcement was to enforce child support payments on those who are not paying not sitting back collecting checks on the ones who are paying and letting the deadbeats off Scott free. Something needs to be done I know I cant be the only one this is happening to. Im going to write every agency I can think off I will not stay quite about this. I was told by child support enforcement that I could contact a lawyer but why would I nor can I pay a lawyer to do somebody elses job that should have been being done for the past 20 years. What are these child support case workers actually doing because Im the one who has always turned in addresses and jobs when and if he had them.
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Loss:
$27000
Pros:
  • Sometimes got child support
Cons:
  • Not fully trying to collect child support

Preferred solution: Full refund

merelyn e

Child support has collected support from my ex since 1980 and they keep all the money for themselves.

Lawton child support office has collected thousands of dollars for my two sons. the sons are now 40 and 44. Child support is still keeping it all for themselves. I know of another case where another woman gets all of her support although she had ten children on the system and received welfare. Child support is stealing my money.They have been collecting this money from my ex for 38 years and more. Child support acts like welfare gave me a million dollars.Now that he has paid down to less than $2000 of what they pretend that he owes. They have added on $65000 interest. That will be theirs too..
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  • Kept my child support
Reason of review:
Problems with payment
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| map-marker Lawton, Oklahoma

Tired of beimg screwed over

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My childrens father ks now 9k behind... not once has OCSS taken ANY action against him and hes done everything to avoid paying. I work and do what i can and my family helps since he wont. Hes even allowed to see them when he wants, but he refuses.
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Leiloni Gcl

The government might as well pay us mothers to do child supports job

Anonymous
map-marker Glen Ridge, New Jersey

Oklahoma Child Enforcement Child Support Services Review from Glen Ridge, New Jersey

Ive been paying child support going on 6 years now. For the first 7 months of my divorce I paid my ex directly with money orders or by money gram because the child support hadnt started taking it from my check yet. I worked out of town and I wanted to make sure I had evidence of payment and my ex wife even provided receipts of my payment stating it was for child support on my receipts. Once the child support office started taking the money directly they sent a letter saying I owed back support from the time my ex and I departed. My ex wife took the receipts to the office located in Sallisaw Oklahoma. Later I received another letter showing that they had received receipt of cash payments and put it towards my back due. Even tho the ex was receiving the money she was having financial troubles at the time so on a couple of occasions I paid her rent in return she gave me a receipt showing the money was child support. I thought all was fine and dandy because I hadn't heard anything from the CS office until I filed my the following year I got a letter from the IRS showing a tax offset from the CS office of Sallisaw and the amount. I called the CS office asking why they took the money because I wasn't behind on support and requested a print out of payment history. After receiving the print out I compared it to my receipts from the ex and my check stubs and was happy because I over paid by them by $3200 or so I thought. The following day I went to the Sallisaw office taking my receipts of payments that I paid directly to my ex and my check stubs that showed what the CS office was taking and the paper I had received about the offset and spoke with my case worker about it and she said she needed to speak with someone about it and walked out. Later a different lady came in with her rude little attitude and asked why I thought there was a problem with the print out. I gladly handed over all my receipts and told her some of payments didn't reflect her print out. She then told me that my ex wife must not have taken them in to be applied. I assumed I had enough proof for them to fix it since she had the receipts in front of her she then told me my ex has to go in and tell them she wants it to be applied. I was already getting irratated by her demeanor and lack of professionalism but I was being civil. So while I was there I called my ex wife and asked why she missed some receipts and told her the ones that was missing she explained that she had brought those in a few days prior. I told the lady what was said and explained to her that it wasn't just the 3 receipts from my ex that wasn't applied there was a few that came directly out of my check that wasn't applied. The lady then told me it didn't matter what my receipts said the only thing that mattered was what her computer said. Now not only was they stealing over $1500 of my tax return they wasn't gonna give me credit for the $3200 that I had proof of paying. Here I'm thinking I'm screwed because that was just my first year of paying CS and I already got shafted for nearly $5000. I then started requesting print outs from them to keep up with it better and low and behold it happened again. There print out never matches the payments made I'm assuming so they can hold money to collect the interest. Matter of fact it has happened every year but 1 since I've been paying CS. I've never had a good experience with them bout time I get a case worker that seems that he/she is actually neutral with the case like they are suppose to be they never last long. The first time I asked for a remod on my CS was when I had quit a dang good job because I found out my kids didn't even live with my ex they lived with her parents while she lived with her boyfriend and it had been that way for 6 months. I told my ex I was quitting my traveling job and was gonna file for full custody. She told me she couldn't afford a lawyer and told me I was just being selfish. I quit that job the next day and drove home from south Louisiana to get my kids but while I was on my way in she called and said she wanted to do 50/50 custody and would drop the CS I happyily agreed because I was gonna see my kids more. That worked out for about 3 months until her boyfriend kicked her out and she had no money. I was under the assumption she had been working but I was wrong again, she hadnt worked any the first 3 years of our divorce and I was ordered to pay her to carry insurance on our kids even tho I had been carrying insurance on them and I had to pay extra for her to put my kids in daycare that they never went to. It only gets worse while I have my piddly $9 an hr job which was fine at the time because I wasn't paying out the rear for CS she cried wolf and in comes Sloane to the rescue. My bring home pay after they started taking CS out again was $63 every 2 weeks. I applied for a remod to have my CS lowered. Going in to court with high hopes knowing I was gonna be able to tell the judge about what had been happening. Low and behold the judge wasn't even there to rule in the child support it was my evil nemisis Sloane. Here I am with all my proof of payments that was never applied and a letter from a witness that for 6 months of the year I was paying CS and my kids wasn't even living in the same home as their mother and for the 3 months after that they lived with me. I knew I was screwed when I saw who was deciding my fate. I fought that battle anyways because it needed to happen. I explained to her about all the extra money that I paid in towards my kids daycare and for my ex to carry insurance she a waste because she never worked. I asked if I was gonna get that money back along with the other money I feel was stolen and she said no. I then pleaded my case about my kids not even living with their mother for 6 months while I paid her CS her reply was it didn't matter where my kids lived because I was ordered to pay my ex CS not my kids. I proceeded to tell her that for the prior 3 months my kids had been in my care and I never received or even asked for a dime and she delivered the knock out punch by tell me I had to pay back pay for that 3 months. I tried ending my relationship with the crooked, sexist,thieving, racist, biguts aka the Oklahoma Child Support Enforcement office by telling her I was just gonna open another bank account with my ex being and her being the only one with access to the money cause all I wanted was a copy of the bank statements showing where the money goes. According to Sloane it wasn't any of my business where the money is spent or what it is spent on and the only thing that matter is that my ex got the money. It really is sad that my that our tax dollars pay those very same people to screw us out of more money. Im still getting the raw end of the deal I'm afraid its a losing battle but I still have hopes of getting the $20k+ that has been pretty much stolen from me in the past years. In February 2015 I tried another attempt to plead my case and notified the CS office that I was unemployed at the time and still am. In November of 2015 they sent a letter threatening jail time because I had made a payment since they stole my tax return for the 4th. I requested to have my CS lowered because it kinda hard to get blood out of a turnip. They did lower my CS tho a whole $75. I didn't see my kids much this past year because their mother refused to let me see them because she wasn't getting her monthly allowance any more. It's sad that she and her boyfriend have a nice house and have a business together and I'm a unemployed disabled veteran but the CS office doesn't even care as long as they get their money and the mother gets hers. The CS office and DHS is suppose to be a neutral party but clearly they are sexist and crooked. They worry about the momma the momma worries about the money and most of time the only one even worrying about the kids is the dad. I can't speak for everyone and hopefully not everyone goes through this.
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Beatrice Llb

I'm going through the exact same situation, I have all the recipes and print outs from the CS office showing the mistakes, errors and over charges made by the CS office. Not only did I pay off the past due amounts, but as soon as I pointed out the mistakes, and amounts that I had over paid.

The next month I received a statement that showed they added back in the past amounts with interest of 10%. My case is a Texas case and Oklahoma should only be enforcing what Texas ordered. Oklahoma has been charging and enforcing my CS as if it was originally a Oklahoma order. If you are or have been wrongly over charged mistreated suffered discrimination, etc by Oklahoma CS office then please email me at jbk7614@***.com.

I'm not a attorney but I want to put together a petition and list of mistreated, over charged etc. Cases that can be presented to the media, state government, district and supreme court.

This is the only way we can stop the corruption, lack of oversight, state agencies that make up and abuse laws when they choose. The only way we put a stop to it is by stand up together.

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map-marker Edmond, Oklahoma

Review in Government and Politics category from Edmond, Oklahoma

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My case in Colorado is being enforced by Oklahoma. Oklahoma cannot keep an accurate balance on amounts paid. Oklahoma went into my checking and took twice the amount of my arrears after taxes after colorado already took the arrears. So at one point I had 3 times my arrears sitting/pending, 4 cents in my account and still paying arrears until both states processed something (2 1/2 months) . Oklahoma goes into my account every pay period and take half my pay heck then sends it back 10-12 days later. When I pay my support to OK it takes them 11-15+ days to get the money to Colorado. Oklahoma will not communicate with Colorado and vice versa so I have to states hammering on me. Being that OK cannot count and they dont keep track of amounts paid their balances have yet to match. I went to OK court 3 times per their instruction each time they were not ready and sent me home. They had me sign for the fourth time so I wouldnt have to leave work (again) and go in. Got a failure to appear notice. To boot it is literally impossible to contact my caseworker. She has over 1400 cases and does not give out a call back number. I am instructed to leave a message with assistant, they will email the caseworker and caseworker may or may not call back. Usually not. So they demand prompt payment but are not prompt on their dispersements, calls backs or communication with other states.
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| map-marker Gore, Oklahoma

They lied to me about VERY important info

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I recently lost custody of my son due to an emergency ex parte and an order (these papers lied). I contacted the CS office about getting set up to make payments. They flat out lied to me, told me I would receive something in the mail, that it would take 90 days to open the case (this was in November) and that I did not need to worry. Yesterday I get a letter in the mail stating I am late in payments so I went up there to complain and ask what was going on. I explained the situation and the lady was VERY rude and unsympathetic. How could they lie about something so important? DO NOT TRUST THESE THIEVES!!!!
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Loss:
$400
Reason of review:
Poor customer service
Anonymous
map-marker Colorado Springs, Colorado

Oklahoma Child Enforcement - Child Support Review from Colorado Springs, Colorado

The Oklahoma child support is for mothers who refuse to work and believe they deserve to get paid money for children they do not take care of. The office is one sided and gets away with lies and fraud. They send out letters requesting back pay based off a mother's lie and without investigation they serve you with papers that pretty much say you are a dead beat dad and need to pay the mom for money you have already paid. If money makes a child happy and not family time then send the child to the fathers home. Most father's just want their child and could care less if the dead beat mom pays. You cannot have a system that gets away with fraud and is centered around a mother's need. It's child support not I'm a lazy mom support.
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Guest

Here is the problem to begin with. Child support was meant for single parents who were in welfare to help establish parentage so the other person would be forced to support their child.

That's great! Dead beats who don't take care of their children should be forced. However, it is a constitutional violation by any judge to automatically enforce a support order where no welfare or violation exist. The Constitution is the highest document in the land and every court #1 priority to uphold!

A citizen of the US cannot be jailed over a debt, cannot be forced into a debt nor can their personal property be taken. Family courts violate these basic INALIENABLE RIGHTs every single day!!! No citizen can be ordered to pay back a debt they did not consent to. That is exactly what child support orders and arrears are!

No citizen can be forced into indentured servitude yet when a patent loses work, they lose their license and go to jail for not paying. Family courts need to be put in check as they ignore our founding document to the point that it's fraud and corruption.

Guest

I work 2 jobs and my ex has gone as much a year with no payment he walks in after contempt citation pays a portion and walks 75% of the time he never even sees the judge , the system is flawed I agree 100%, it's the good olé boy system in leflore County, who you know and who you related too, he been thousands behind no liscence suspension , nothing, I pay for insurance school clothes lunch bills work 2 jobs to meet their needs and he gets to go on Disney vacations and play disney dad, doesn't call to talk to them doesn't call to check on them, I would love to quit my jobs sit at home on my butt and get welfare, but I have more pride in myself and respect for my children!

Guest

You're so ***. You have no friggin clue what you're talking about.

I've worked every day of my life for 19 years now and was FORCED to go thru this *** Child Support Thieves to get healthcare and daycare assistance for my two kids. I didn't get any support for 2 years during my divorce.

Many mom's are forced into doing this. So don't be so *** *** and assume *** ***, numbnuts.

You're obviously venting about your situation.

Guest

No matter who has custody your kid still has to eat everyday have a roof over their heads school supplies etc.Why should you let the kid suffer because you are mad at the mom?You think that little bit they take out of your check every week covers every thing a child needs?Not by a long shot.Man up and grow up and next time wear a raincoat.

Guest

I agree with you whole completely. Maybe not all mother's do that, but I have certainly run into more than one.

In my case I adopted two kids after bio parents relinquished rights, but child enforcement still has an order out for one of the bio-dads to cover the child with health insurance. I'm supposed to be thankful for this, but I am not thankful. I AM PISSED. I am pissed, because I found out when I took my child to the emergency room and they told me they had to bill his insurance as primary - EVEN THOUGH she has a new name and new birth certificate!!!!

I can't complain to DHS child enforcement, because I didn't file the petition for child support. It does no good to talk to my post adoption caseworker, because she is not allowed to discuss anything with any other departments. I don't blame bio-dad.

He was just someone for bio-mom to blame for the repercussions of one of her numerous booty calls. (Yes I do know that for fact, because she is an in-law.)

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Anonymous
map-marker Doylestown, Pennsylvania

Lazy incompitant caseworkers!

I haven't gotten any child support since last year! When I call cse to ask why they say they cant locate the fathers. Anyone can look them up on facebook n c that they r n have been working so what's the problem!? One of the dads even says he's been working at the same place for 10 years and des takes child support out every week. So where's my money!!!??? They say they cent do anything unless I tell them their address. How should I know I'm 300miles away!!! Isn't that THEIR JOB!!!??? THOSE INC CASE WORKERS R A JOKE! THEY R LAZY AND INCOMPETENT N SOMEONE NEEDS TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!
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Guest

Lawton child support has been collecting from my ex for 38 years. they keep it all for the state.

They are always right.

You cannot get them to correct their mistakes. They need a class action lawsuit against them.

Guest

It's real odd that you would believe an absent father over the Oklahoma CSE workers. I would do the opposite.

Furthermore if you know how to talk to this one father, you must know how to get hold of him and find out exactly where he works and from when to when. You also can't tell me you don't know where the others are located and by the way, how many kids do you have and by how many men. That right there shows you aren't real smart and then there is your lack of capitalization, and some punctuation. "cse" shoulld be capitalized, "cant" should have an apostrophe in between the n and the t.

What in heck do the following items mean "n" "c" "r" "n". dads should also be capitalized, along with DES. What is "cent" or did you mean "can't?" In order to be taken seriously you have to be a better writer. With the load of child support enforcement cases, nationwide, you can't expect immediate gratification.

Even if you live 300 miles away it is up to you to know where your kids fathers are.

For one thing in divorce decrees it usually states that when one or the other parent relocates, there is a minimum number of days to notify the other parent of the new address and phone number. Quit expecting Social Services to do all the work and take some responsibility for your kids.

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Johnny W Zym
map-marker Gulfport, Mississippi

Released from court but called ex back in to judge

I was ordered to appear at the child support enforcement office for a child support hearing. Upon the case worker realizing that I had a lawyer to begin the divorce process, my soon to be ex and myself was excused till another court date that was scheduled for three months later. After leaving the office the child support enforcement had called my ex back into their office to see the judge. The child support office had put me down as defualt and she received more than what the oklahoma guide lines are. I received a notification on how much I am behind and it's not even correct because they used one figure for the first five prior months before the court and now they are using the amount on the papers a was originally served to appear to court. Now the Child support office will not even talk to me now because of my lawyer.
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$1500

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