I am a certified surgical technologist and have done many of the hair transplants they do. I am sure they were trying to help immeadiate problem and then go to next step.
The lazor comb stimulates hair growth. It has helped so many people. It is not an immeadiate fix. Yes some times travel is required but you should go some where that it has been done a lot.
They can't charge your credit card unless you give it to them. They help lots of people. If you see one of the top doctors in the world I will guarantee they have had complaints. There is no way to make every one happy.
It is not their fault you have a child that can't be left. People have surgery all the time and have to find some one to watch their kids.
You have to work and spend money for what you want. It will not fall in your lap.