Adultfriendfinder - Ripped off! @ Adult friend finder

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As a trial member I had lots of views and flirts by many women from California.Once I became a paid member to respond, views and flirts from women disappeared.

they picked up again from women in Africa, Israel, Hungary Philipines, China (all-FAKE-contacts I believe) where adultfriendfinder knows Im unlikely to write. I've written 18 letters to local active members in my immediate area looking for exactly someone like me and who viewed me and sent me flirts. Of course all were standard members so I bought the features that allowed them to contact me. Not one did so in spite of more reviews and flirts from same women.NO responses at all.

I'm a good looking guy with a picture on my profile and very good description etc. I had alot of responses at Plentyoffish free site. If you do join Don't pay for gold or for any additional features such as allowing standard members to contact you. They don't deliver anything more.

Be forewarned, this site is notorious for ripping people off. I read many reviews from other people with similar experiences to mine who were also ripped off by AFF. Unfortunately, I read reviews after I joined and had been ripped off. WARNING!

if you pay by credit card and set your reocurring charge to off AFF will reset to ON just before your membership expiration!AFF will RIP you off!

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204 of 220 Adultfriendfinder reviews

Sep 14, 2016 #1212660

#1- Once you become a paid member, you need to check your account setttings and turn AUTO-RENEW to "off" because the default is "on".
#2- Men are a dime a dozen on there. Tons of *** men all clambering for the attention of a few real women. There are plenty of men on there who just play games and won't ever meet you either! And just because God gave you the right "part" doesn't mean you are entitled to get some action because you are a paid member.

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Jul 31, 2014 #849156 Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

I'm a real member with a real profile... surprise surprise I'm also a girl!
Let me give you it from our side of view. I'm attractive, have a fairly racy profile, and have some pretty hot photos up and I constantly get accused of being a fake because I don't respond fast enough or because I say I'm not interested after a few messages. You have to realize that not everyone is attracted to everyone else. Not to mention that even though AFF is basically a hook up site, leading with a *** pic and a sexually charged rape fantasy is probably not going to get you the attention you deserve.
I get lots of emails and message but most from men who are way too old, way too married, or way too far away. I'm not bragging, I have girlfriends on the site and it's the same thing for them... it takes forever to *** out the fakes and the crazies and get to the good ones and by then they've often got frustrated and moved on (or deleted their account)
So boys maybe think about that the next time you message a girl. Be sweet... say something besides "Whats Up" "Wanna ***?" "Or do you like big ***?" and you might be surprised. And please for the love of god have a full profile!

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Jul 03, 2014 #835631

Wanted to complaint on AFF to police as many of the girls converted this site as Paid sex site and they are doing online prostitution. Please let me know how to raise a complaint on few members from this site.

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Jun 21, 2014 #829998 Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

Are they still turning auto-renew ON??? i'd like to go Gold.. but i don't want to be robbed every month
if i decide to Cancer my Subscription.

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rip off

Aug 17, 2012 #530153

I have been a member on and off over the years.AFF will do just what people say. They will charge you without you knowing about it and you have to call and talk to someone over seas that doesnt have a clue.AFF has done this more than once to me.Just have to watch them. I will say that I have met a couple of women on there but near as many as the site boasts it has.I get ALL KINDS OF FAKE stuff AFF should be able to filter out.Bottom women can be found on this site but always have your guard up for AFF TO RIP YOU OFF BECAUSE THEY WILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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May 25, 2012 #485641

AFF has been turning my account back on after I have turned it off numerous times. When I had called them in the past, they gave me the same story as they gave others here "you must of clicked the wrong button and accidentally turn it back on to auto renew. I have also spoke to several people that have had this problem with these thieves. The last time I was on my account was last year around May 2011 with the expectation that my Gold account wast going to expire the very next month June 2011. A friend told my that I am still on AFF as a gold member, again the same old stealing money from customers bank accounts after they have turned off auto renew. I am very pissed off right now and will be taking action against this Bogus company. I will be contacting the FCC and I will do everything in my power to have them shut down. I am licensed through the FCC and I know how it all works. The more people that contact the FCC, the better. Spread the word that this company is a rip off/scam. Their days are numbered!!!

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vagino rhino

Dec 21, 2011 #395469

the fake profiles all have lots of numbers added and are usually of the same day. and the engrish is tearwabull

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Laughing out loud

Sep 30, 2011 #352008

I have not logged into AFF for almost a year and yes, my auto renew was set to off as I had called a year prior to complain about charges and got the old story "you must have changed it to "on"... at any rate, I got a call from VISA telling me my account was 4 months overdue. Wait a minute here, I don't even use the card when it occurred to me that AFF was at it again. What kind of B.S. is that?

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Jun 16, 2011 #300222

Just Got ripped off by them to Had a years membership and today it has been suspended no e-mail or anything. Had 10 months left! Anyone want to report them to the FCC? I think I will

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Mar 08, 2011 #258042

AFF: Luckily for me, I live in a very small town. As a result, I know the faces of most people who live here. Doing a search on AFF resulted in numerous 'hot babes' who were desperately seeking (guys like me). HA ! All the hotties in this small town can be counted on ONE HAND, and even THAT is being generous! That was the reason for the search in the first place.


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jeffrey delgado

Mar 01, 2011 #254825

we have no comment

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Feb 18, 2011 #250372

you are just one unlucky dude. i've hit gold on this site various times. i got a shorty right now she live about 3 hours north of where im at (in japan) and i had fun with her. she not the only one. been on less than a year. not a lot of action but i am navy and im out to sea a lot but im happy with my results. be patient.

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Joe Smith

Dec 30, 2010 #230145

There are both real and fake ads on the site. After a while you can tell which is which. I have met several nice people on there. My biggest irritation is the problem with them turning auto renew back on after you intentially turn it off. That to me is really a problem. In fact they just did it to me again after I have complained to them at least three times before. They have over-drafted my account twice (with auto renew off) because I was waiting to renew until I had the money. I think from now on I will renew for the time I want and then cancel that card.

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Nov 30, 2010 #216857

Does anybody else find it odd that you can receive flirts from standard users, but you can not send flirts as a standard users (i.e. the flirts you receive from standard users are a scam designed to get you to pay for an upgrade)?

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Aug 29, 2010 #182684

If u have face so many problems, why not sue them or hire a pro team to bring down their site.

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May 26, 2010 #147467

Adult friend finder is a scam. I was a silver member and my auto renew was turned off. A few day before my membership ran out I get an email saying they were having trouble renewing my membership (insufficient funds) on my debit card. I emailed back saying my auto renew was turned off and under no circumstances were they to renew my membership. Next day I get another email saying they are having trouble re-newing my membership. I emailed back in big bold red letters that my auto renew is off and not to attempt to take money from my account. Two days later i paid money into my account, you guessed it, the following day money was taken from my account by AFF. They are thieves and crooks. My auto renew has always been turned off. I now have to scrap my card and get a new one with a new number. Why are they aloud to get away with such stealing.

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